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Date Posted: Sunday, October 23, 2011, 05:05: pm
I posted the following message on the 215251 forum, in the hope that it would rekindle some of the interest that in the past has led to some worthwhile exchanges on the topic of douching, particularly comments on reactions of husbands and bfs to participating in this aspect of our feminine hygiene. Most posters in the past have described such response as "very eager", and some of the posters have wondered just why their males exhibit such an interest in a topic that we generally take for granted. I think I can say confidently that almost all posters have agreed that it is the erotic interest expressed by their male partners that results in an erotic response by themselves, a conclusion in which I share completely. The 215251 forum allows posts by males, some of which have been of interest in that they describe their reactions from a male point of view. One thing I have noted in those male posts seems to be a lack of speculation on just what they think describes our female response to their participation. I rather imagine that most men fail to understand just how dependent our response is to their level of erotic arousal that results from "helping" with our douching. I know that, early on, I went to some length to explain to my husband that when I douche by myself (as for a quickie morning cleanup) there is little or no erotic component involved for me, whereas he is well aware that together, I derive a great deal of enjoyment from sharing the activity. I wonder how many of those male posters actually fully understand that this is just about universally so.
Hubby and I used to love to browse the douching related posts together (neither of us have an interest in enemas). Unfortunately, interest in posting on douching seems to have evaporated. A poster named Steka commented about her use of diaphragm and jelly and about proper use of a douche when removing the diaphragm. Her posts about the sexual connotations of douching equipment as well as the pleasure involved (for both her and hubby) in using it struck a responsive chord for both my husband and I, and revived lots of memories of our early married days when we too used a diaphragm and jelly for contraception, and of my husband's introduction to sharing in my douching (he still enjoys it as much as he did in those early days). Although that birth control method had its drawbacks, we still sometimes comment to each other about how we managed to incorporate diaphragm preparation and insertion into our foreplay - likewise for using the applicator to add more jelly for repeat sex.
For all of you who enjoy sharing your douching with hubby and/or bf, I'd like to know how many of you frequently finish up with a hand job for him? In our case, he finds "helping" me with my bulb douche to be so erotically arousing, even when the douching is just after we have just made love, I fairly often give him a mutually enjoyable hand job for a finale. A little KY lubrication enhances his sensation for this too. I'd also be curious to ask those of you who do to describe the pleasure YOU get from this act - in my case, a warm, loving giving and sharing of an erotic act. It's a little hard to describe, but I intensely enjoy the ability to observe his climax while my arousal is a little more clearheaded than during intercourse. It's also fun to occasionally pause when I can tell he's just on the verge of orgasm to get him to beg for JUST A LITTLE MORE! Timing can be everything!
Hope to hear from some of you on this topic.
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