Subject: Is it OK to continue the enema when your kid is crying hard?
Author: Perry
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] Date Posted:17:02:53 06/29/09 Mon
My 8 year old girl had a bad flu and sore throat. The doctor told me to give her a soapy enema, then a rinse. She cried so even though I administered it slowly, the bag only two feet from her bottom. I did make her take it all, then waited and we did the rinse, but maybe the experience was traumatic. Was I wrong to finish the treatment as told to do.
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[> Subject: Re: Is it OK to continue the enema when your kid is crying hard?
Date Posted:22:46:10 06/29/09 Mon
Watch for your daughter to be writing on this enema forum in the future. This is the legacy you gave your daughter, for the rest of her life.
Date Posted:23:43:30 06/29/09 Mon
Dear Future Check aka: self appointed moralist
you are more fanatic in making judgments than those submitting honest discussions. Why not start a new religion instead of invading a board to preach.
Date Posted:07:39:50 06/30/09 Tue
I never did!
I always picked a moment when I did not think I was going to have that problem, and i was right 90% of the time!
My son is now a teen, my twin daughters are in college!
Date Posted:15:37:42 07/01/09 Wed
I don't know how to say this without sounding like a really mean person, but a needed enema should given even if the child turns on the waterworks. Kids learn quickly what they need to do to get out of something they don't want to get, and I speak from experience. I have a fifteen year old. Since she has been small, every enema I have given her has her twisting around on my lap far enough so that I can see that she has squeezed out a few tears for me to see. Those tears show up around half way through her enemas. But I know that she need for me to put one and one-half quarts in her or we are just going to have to do a second enema. Think about it this way. When I give her a spanking she is crying as soon as she is over my lap. I mean I haven't even lowered her panties and she gets the waterworks going. So should I not spank her just because she is crying? Don't think so.
Date Posted:19:47:20 07/01/09 Wed
No legitimate doctor prescribes a soapy enema for an eight year old with the flu. What is it with you perverts, believing this shit?
Date Posted:12:04:00 07/02/09 Thu
A child's crying can be manipulative and meant to ward of a much needed enema. When my trusted MD tells me how to treat my child, you better believe I listen. I did discuss what happens when I get the crying during an enema and was told to continue, gently and slowly but to be firm in following through with the process. It is with my child's health in mind that I continue. I asked the board about this to learn if other care givers experienced this constant crying during a kid's enema and wanted feedback on different approaches on how to handle it as well as possible. I have both oars in the water.
Date Posted:09:38:14 07/03/09 Fri
Though I believe in gentleness with giving children a needed enema, the health benefit out weighs the fussing when it is really necessary. So I also would continue with an enema for the child's best welfare. My kids were easy to enema, but if they weren't, I've had insisted because I believe in the benefits and necessity of enemas.
Date Posted:16:36:47 07/03/09 Fri
I guess it's an unfortunate necesssity to "bear with the screaming" and get the job done (in order to get the jobbie done!)
Date Posted:22:45:31 07/03/09 Fri
The soapy enema sure worked well on my 8 Year old girl. Within minutes she had an humongous expulsion. First she blew a loud fart and then a big fat chunk of shit "kerplunked" out of her ass Into the toilet with a loud "Thud" sound, and then an avalanche of wet, soapy and hot n' muddy shit came flying out of her ass in rapid fire succession, followed by loads of wet gurgly farts and boy did It stink. (this little girl was surely constipated). The toilet bowl looked like beef stew. I gave her a plain water enema and the same scenario occured once more. It's hard to believe so much shit can be packed up In such a little girl and how bad of a stink human shit can produce. Finally after I gave her a second plain water enema, she was all cleaned out and she was feeling a bit better.
Date Posted:23:47:58 07/03/09 Fri
We were right when we told all of you that Perry was crazy. Perry also has a mental illness that needs a lot of attention. In the meantime, we suggest Perry find another forum to exhibit his literary skills. If Perry cannot find another forum, we will find one for him, and transfer his membership to that forum as soon as possible.
Date Posted:14:54:13 07/04/09 Sat
Even if his/her writing style resembles that of a certain prankster (clue: MKD), I don't think you should assume that Perry is an imposter. I mean I used to write similar things when I was battling childhood-constipation, and that was certainly a vivid and detailed account!
Date Posted:20:08:30 07/05/09 Sun
It may be problematic on this board, only the last note by "Perry" was not written by me, the one who started this post. I would appreciate holding of on these assessments and pronouncements when there are impostors co-mingling with sincere people writing responses.
Date Posted:16:45:07 07/05/09 Sun
Seems to be two topics in this conversation: does a child need an enema, and should it be stopped if they start crying.
Im not getting into the first question since there has been so much discussion about it here already, but if the enemas is being given, I have found with my own family, its best to just keep it going as long as you are still getting the water into them. I dont see any sense in stopping the enema unless its over, since will only be worse when you start it again - just try to get it into them with out stopping - it will be much easier for the child - and you!
Thats just my own opinion but based on many enema session in our home as they were growing up. hope that helps.
Posts or email are both ok since i dont check here that much,
Carol Lynn
lynnmark3@yahoo.com
Date Posted:17:09:50 07/05/09 Sun
You mentioned in your message, that you give your children an enema, "until it is over." How do you decide when it is over?
Date Posted:17:49:39 07/05/09 Sun
very good question! I dont have any exact way of determining when their enema is over, but I can tell when their complaining and fussing goes to a high level and I know they are being more honest about being full. As long as most of the water from the enema bag had emptied into them, i agree to stop it.
Date Posted:21:06:47 07/05/09 Sun
Carol Lynn,
I appreciated reading your post since I am a mom and have been in that situation a number of times over the years when giving family enemas. At first I was never sure what to do when they kids started complaining and telling me to stop the enema, so one of my girlfriends agreed to help me with it. She did the same thing that you wrote, and I was much more confident after she helped me understand that I would not be doing any good by stopping the enema as soon as they complained, but its also necessary to realize that there is a time to stop - the challenge is to learn to tell when that happens.
Date Posted:09:31:33 07/06/09 Mon
Lets face most all kids cry for any medical procedure done to them you just have to use some common sence when giving them enemas.
Date Posted:09:39:07 07/06/09 Mon
My daughter will have the enema when it's needed. When I didn't stop the enema as she fussed, she learned to stop fussing, relaxing and it was much more comfortable for her that way. She learned that acting up wasn't going to stop Mom's enema treatment.
Date Posted:11:54:31 07/13/09 Mon
When an enema is given for punishment no matter how the recipient carries on, it must continue. Sometimes when my woman needs discipline, I make her stand up, wrists tied to the towel rack and attach the hot large soapy enema bag to the shower rod. She may scream and moan, but this just inspires me to give her another fill. Afterward, when the series is over and she wipes her tears, she thanks me for setting her straight.
Date Posted:20:31:22 07/13/09 Mon
You wrote "setting her straight." Didn't you mean "setting her gay?" She is a homosexual, so we have to get our words straight.
