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Subject: trauma


Author:
Lucy D
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Date Posted: Friday, July 09, 2010, 03:15: pm

I have no recollection of receiving my first enema as I was obviously getting them before i was able to remember.
As such it was never traumatic, as it might have been if i had been given one at the age of, say 12, the first time.
I always liked the sensations, and as it seemed as natural as been given an aspirin in my house. The transition to the Higginson syringe from the childhood squeeze bulb felt like i was just growing up.
The higginson however did add a new dimension to the enemas especially when i reached puberty and noticed a distinct tingling sensation not previously felt,as each squeeze of the bulb would cause me to shudder slightly.I think my Mom was surprised at the amount i could take, but i never wanted her to stop squeezing the bulb, so took more than i probably should have.
I actually craved them from that point on and a week of no enemas was frustrating , to say the least.
To this day i get them over the knee and the fact that all my enemas are given totally nude, as they were when i was younger, just makes it more exciting.
Unlike some women here i have no desire to self administer.The pleasure is in the submission, I think.
Do others have similar feelings and needs?

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[> Subject: Re: trauma


Author:
Lucy D
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Date Posted: Wednesday, July 14, 2010, 01:55: pm

Thank you Suzi for replying and being so frank and honest.
I'm 32 and average size and build and still get them otk. Up to now only my Mom has given them to me as i would be afraid to admit to anyone that i love them so much.
I'm guilty of pretending to my Mom and myself that they are all given for medical reasons and sometimes wonder, if i admitted that pleasure was the only purpose, that it would diminish the sensations.
I sort of need the pretend realism of the act in order to justify the amount of fluid i am able to hold.
I also enjoy each bulb squeeze so much that i will ask for more on the grounds that i really do need it to clean me out properly.
Maybe a g/f would be the eventual solution to my needs, but think she'd have to believe that it was for constipation or some medical need ,so that she would not feel that i was using her.Hope this helps. One again, thanks.

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[> Subject: Re: trauma


Author:
Debby
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Date Posted: Monday, July 26, 2010, 06:50: pm

Dear Lucy, I think I can fully identify with you as regards
the Higginson. I got my first enema with that,round about age 4. Even though it was only a few squirts,I enjoyed the
gentle pumping sensation right from the start(so much so that I never whinged when I had to get enema'd and Mummy
praised me for taking it so well). As I got older ofcourse
I was able to take more, and wasnt shy to ask for it!
I got real fond of that dear old rubber pump,the dull reddish color and stubby black nozzle.Somehow the bathroom
wouldnt have been the same without it.
I rember once when I was about 11 Mummy wanted to get a
douche can for me, and I made a big fuss and pleaded with
her not to,saying I didnt wanna take it any other way!
And so like you I got hooked on the Higginson from an early
age. Mummy gave me some lovely soapy enemas well into my
teenage years(and ofcourse some lovely feelins too!)
The way I see it the Higginson syringe is a marvelous
invention, small,portable,easy to clean and if properly
looked after should last many years. The gentle pumping
action makes it easier to take slowly in stages. I remembr
how Mummy would start off by slowly squeezing it in, and if
I complained of any discomfort,she would stop, massage my
belly for a while and then continue pumping till I felt full
Maybe it took a bit longer,but then I believe a good enema
should never be hurried.
That was nearly 40 years ago, sadly however Higginsons seem
hard to find in most drugstores now (though I'm told they
are still popular in many third world countries)
Nowadays it seems most mothers in this country choose to
enema their kids with bags,bulbs or disposables such as Fleet.
Although the Higginson can be easily self administered,
bear in mind that in order to get the most out of it, you
really need to a highly skilled enemate to give it to you
(ie someone who is sensitive enough to be in touch with
your feelings throughout the process) I do hope you find
a suitable partner.....I know it took me quite a while to
find mine.
Love Debby

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[> Subject: Re: trauma


Author:
LIz (Higginson)
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Date Posted: Saturday, July 31, 2010, 10:32: pm

I should begin by telling you I'm an Australian in Australia.

During a few years I lived and worked in the States I developed a good friendship with one of the women with whom I worked. I had known her almost two years when she happened to tell me she’d had a chronic problem with constipation. I remarked that it seemed we had something in common – something we wished we didn’t have in common! We compared notes and found we both had the same experience with the common American laxatives and I asked if she’d gotten any good results with enemas. Donna told me she took as few enemas as possible and would take one only as a very last resort. She told me her mother had given her enemas as a child and the experience was awful. She continued and, by telling me about her mum’s technique, clearly explained why the enema had been such a negative. She told me that, the times she did take an enema, she was barely able to take enough to get some relief.

I asked her if she’d ever tried a Higginson. She knew what it was, but hadn’t tried it. Maybe, she said, it might be a good idea and, perhaps, she’d contact her pharmacist and buy one. I told her she could use mine or, what might be better, let me give her an enema with the Higginson. That sounded to her like a good idea and, a few weeks later, she told me she was ā€œstuckā€ again and would I ā€œhelp outā€?

The Higginson enema went remarkably well. I had Donna lie on her left side and I used a colon tube which I smeared with KY and inserted seven or eight inches. About that distance from the tip of my colon tube I have a baby bottle nipple which serves somewhat to help retention. I had made up an enema set with a three-litre plastic pitcher. I made a two-quart solution with warm water and very little soap. I very, very slowly squeezed the bulb; it took over ten minutes to give the first quart. I did stop a few times so Donna could take some puppy-dog breaths but, overall, that quantity went very easily. Continuing, I was able to ease the better part of a second quart. My patient felt she’d taken all she could and I stopped and got her to hold the enema for five more minutes. The results were great! Donna couldn’t get over how easy it went, she said she hoped I might ā€œhelp outā€ again and offered to return the favour. While Donna and I had been pretty good friends, we added a new dimension to our friendship.

A few months before I was to return home (to Australia) Donna hooked up with a really nice guy whom she eventually married. She told me she had no trouble getting her man to give her the necessary treatment:) We corresponded for a few years but eventually our contacts dropped to zero.

I learned from this that the Higginson's not common in the States and I think, if more Yanks would use it and give the enema as most nursing texts probably teach, the enema could, parhaps, regain some popularity that it had some decades ago.

Cheers!

Liz

Liz

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