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Subject: Re: trauma Author: Lucy D [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Wednesday, July 14, 2010, 01:55: pm In reply to: Lucy D 's message, "trauma" on Friday, July 09, 2010, 03:15: pm Thank you Suzi for replying and being so frank and honest. I'm 32 and average size and build and still get them otk. Up to now only my Mom has given them to me as i would be afraid to admit to anyone that i love them so much. I'm guilty of pretending to my Mom and myself that they are all given for medical reasons and sometimes wonder, if i admitted that pleasure was the only purpose, that it would diminish the sensations. I sort of need the pretend realism of the act in order to justify the amount of fluid i am able to hold. I also enjoy each bulb squeeze so much that i will ask for more on the grounds that i really do need it to clean me out properly. Maybe a g/f would be the eventual solution to my needs, but think she'd have to believe that it was for constipation or some medical need ,so that she would not feel that i was using her.Hope this helps. One again, thanks. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: trauma Author: Debby [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 26, 2010, 06:50: pm Dear Lucy, I think I can fully identify with you as regards the Higginson. I got my first enema with that,round about age 4. Even though it was only a few squirts,I enjoyed the gentle pumping sensation right from the start(so much so that I never whinged when I had to get enema'd and Mummy praised me for taking it so well). As I got older ofcourse I was able to take more, and wasnt shy to ask for it! I got real fond of that dear old rubber pump,the dull reddish color and stubby black nozzle.Somehow the bathroom wouldnt have been the same without it. I rember once when I was about 11 Mummy wanted to get a douche can for me, and I made a big fuss and pleaded with her not to,saying I didnt wanna take it any other way! And so like you I got hooked on the Higginson from an early age. Mummy gave me some lovely soapy enemas well into my teenage years(and ofcourse some lovely feelins too!) The way I see it the Higginson syringe is a marvelous invention, small,portable,easy to clean and if properly looked after should last many years. The gentle pumping action makes it easier to take slowly in stages. I remembr how Mummy would start off by slowly squeezing it in, and if I complained of any discomfort,she would stop, massage my belly for a while and then continue pumping till I felt full Maybe it took a bit longer,but then I believe a good enema should never be hurried. That was nearly 40 years ago, sadly however Higginsons seem hard to find in most drugstores now (though I'm told they are still popular in many third world countries) Nowadays it seems most mothers in this country choose to enema their kids with bags,bulbs or disposables such as Fleet. Although the Higginson can be easily self administered, bear in mind that in order to get the most out of it, you really need to a highly skilled enemate to give it to you (ie someone who is sensitive enough to be in touch with your feelings throughout the process) I do hope you find a suitable partner.....I know it took me quite a while to find mine. Love Debby [ Post a Reply to This Message ]