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Subject: Re: trauma Author: Debby [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Monday, July 26, 2010, 06:50: pm In reply to: Lucy D 's message, "trauma" on Friday, July 09, 2010, 03:15: pm Dear Lucy, I think I can fully identify with you as regards the Higginson. I got my first enema with that,round about age 4. Even though it was only a few squirts,I enjoyed the gentle pumping sensation right from the start(so much so that I never whinged when I had to get enema'd and Mummy praised me for taking it so well). As I got older ofcourse I was able to take more, and wasnt shy to ask for it! I got real fond of that dear old rubber pump,the dull reddish color and stubby black nozzle.Somehow the bathroom wouldnt have been the same without it. I rember once when I was about 11 Mummy wanted to get a douche can for me, and I made a big fuss and pleaded with her not to,saying I didnt wanna take it any other way! And so like you I got hooked on the Higginson from an early age. Mummy gave me some lovely soapy enemas well into my teenage years(and ofcourse some lovely feelins too!) The way I see it the Higginson syringe is a marvelous invention, small,portable,easy to clean and if properly looked after should last many years. The gentle pumping action makes it easier to take slowly in stages. I remembr how Mummy would start off by slowly squeezing it in, and if I complained of any discomfort,she would stop, massage my belly for a while and then continue pumping till I felt full Maybe it took a bit longer,but then I believe a good enema should never be hurried. That was nearly 40 years ago, sadly however Higginsons seem hard to find in most drugstores now (though I'm told they are still popular in many third world countries) Nowadays it seems most mothers in this country choose to enema their kids with bags,bulbs or disposables such as Fleet. Although the Higginson can be easily self administered, bear in mind that in order to get the most out of it, you really need to a highly skilled enemate to give it to you (ie someone who is sensitive enough to be in touch with your feelings throughout the process) I do hope you find a suitable partner.....I know it took me quite a while to find mine. Love Debby [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: trauma Author: LIz (Higginson) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 31, 2010, 10:32: pm I should begin by telling you I'm an Australian in Australia. During a few years I lived and worked in the States I developed a good friendship with one of the women with whom I worked. I had known her almost two years when she happened to tell me she’d had a chronic problem with constipation. I remarked that it seemed we had something in common – something we wished we didn’t have in common! We compared notes and found we both had the same experience with the common American laxatives and I asked if she’d gotten any good results with enemas. Donna told me she took as few enemas as possible and would take one only as a very last resort. She told me her mother had given her enemas as a child and the experience was awful. She continued and, by telling me about her mum’s technique, clearly explained why the enema had been such a negative. She told me that, the times she did take an enema, she was barely able to take enough to get some relief. I asked her if she’d ever tried a Higginson. She knew what it was, but hadn’t tried it. Maybe, she said, it might be a good idea and, perhaps, she’d contact her pharmacist and buy one. I told her she could use mine or, what might be better, let me give her an enema with the Higginson. That sounded to her like a good idea and, a few weeks later, she told me she was “stuck” again and would I “help out”? The Higginson enema went remarkably well. I had Donna lie on her left side and I used a colon tube which I smeared with KY and inserted seven or eight inches. About that distance from the tip of my colon tube I have a baby bottle nipple which serves somewhat to help retention. I had made up an enema set with a three-litre plastic pitcher. I made a two-quart solution with warm water and very little soap. I very, very slowly squeezed the bulb; it took over ten minutes to give the first quart. I did stop a few times so Donna could take some puppy-dog breaths but, overall, that quantity went very easily. Continuing, I was able to ease the better part of a second quart. My patient felt she’d taken all she could and I stopped and got her to hold the enema for five more minutes. The results were great! Donna couldn’t get over how easy it went, she said she hoped I might “help out” again and offered to return the favour. While Donna and I had been pretty good friends, we added a new dimension to our friendship. A few months before I was to return home (to Australia) Donna hooked up with a really nice guy whom she eventually married. She told me she had no trouble getting her man to give her the necessary treatment:) We corresponded for a few years but eventually our contacts dropped to zero. I learned from this that the Higginson's not common in the States and I think, if more Yanks would use it and give the enema as most nursing texts probably teach, the enema could, parhaps, regain some popularity that it had some decades ago. Cheers! Liz Liz [ Post a Reply to This Message ]