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Date Posted: Wednesday, April 14, 2010, 12:49: pm
There is so much more to it than your list because my husband is a Kalismo. But since you want selections, they are:
A. the feeling of control: Any time you’re giving an enema you have this feeling and your partner knows it, and once an enema is started it must be take, another part of the control for us is providing sensual pleasuring as the enema is given and held which helps acceptance. In the case of my husband I must be careful not to take him over the top during the delivery or his desire to continue wanes and then I must become a stern mother not just a lover. Of course when involved in such play there needs to be a safe word and if used by your partner the play stops.
B. sliding the nozzle in: I enjoy slipping the nozzle or a long, 18 to 30-inch, colon tube in. We both prefer nozzles with thick shafts and bulbous tips. Part of the pleasure for both of us is a long deep pre-lube and then before nozzle insertion stroking it up and down the buttocks cleft and inducing a light pressure with out insertion when passing the anus. My husband always gives out with a soft “Mmmmm” during the first two or three passes followed by a “please now” after that, he also will pucker out his anal sphincter when it’s touched which is arousing for me to watch. Then finally he gives a long sigh of pleasure when the nozzle is slipped in, I also stroke the nozzle in and out without removing it while the enema is given. A colon tube is done differently, and unless you really know how to insert one to avoid injury only put one in no more than 8-inches and if you feel resistance go no further. Our preferred tubes are F-38, ½-inch in diameter, which assures the feeling of thickness as it passes through the anal sphincter. To inhance the pleasure felt cy the sphincter our tubes are marked with indelible ink every 4-inche, and are well lubed when used. Insertion is done very slowly with a twisting motion to enhance the feeling of insertion, I start by slipping in the first 8 inches, then start the enema, then I slowly push in other 4-inches, and then pull it back, then reverse direction and insert 8-inchs. I continue the cycle of 4-inches out and 8-inches in until the entire tube is inserted or meet resistance and stop. When the bag empties he has to go through a holding period and I provide various stimuli to help him. When the time is up, using one hand to help him retain the enema I squeeze his hips together and with the other very slowly withdraw the tube, which is when he usually goes over the top. To keep things neat and tidy at any time during the enema when he develops an erection, as part of our play I may put a condom on him.
C. watching the bag empty: We often use clear plastic bags holding from 1,500-ml to 2,5 liters, we add food coloring making it easier to see the enema lowering in the bag. It’s very erotic for both of us.
D. having him squirm and rub a little on the bed: He does during nozzle play before insertion and during the hold, not only from the enema but also from other stimulus.
F. making him wait: We both enjoy the sensual distraction provided during the holding period. Depending on what I want to do during the hold or during tube extraction is whether or not a condom is used.
E. My husband is almost 60-YO and his ability to rise to the occasion for marital play is no longer the same as during most of our 35 year marriage. An enema is his Viagra and works every time.
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