Susan Gwoan Benton
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Date Posted: Saturday, October 13, 2012, 12:00: pm
Thank you for your reply, but let me explain. He is my second husband and we have a good marriage with the occacional problems that comes along. His daughter and my kids are our family and that is very clear for me. The differences that we have between my husband and I is that we were brought up differently. I was given enemas since I was a little girl, and you could said at that age I did everything to avoid one. Of course my mother, my grandmother, and my aunt make sure I receive one. I was also given enemas at the doctors office by a nurse. So I grew up with them. I was also one of those girls that receive enemas as punishment, those were very hot, soppy and hard to take. But as the years passed I develop a fethish over them and I don't view them with the same rejection as when I was a kid. In my household enemas were a norm and even the boys got one. I am pretty sure husbands got one too. So you see enemas are not only something that I like but over the years I can remember all those years and revive memories. I was shock when I discover this forum by accident because I thought that only few families did enemas, but I can see that is a commom practice that many people do. But my husband is not like that, he was brought up in a more secluded family with more strong religious believes and his family never use enemas. When we dated I never mentioned enemas to him and after we got married I had the courage to talk to him about it and in the begining he didn't mind. We went to a difficult adjusting time in the beginning of our marriage when his dauthter (now my loved daughter too because I love that girl)tried to brake us apart by being an unruling BRAT! We tried everything, from counselors to professional psycologies but nothing worked, so in the end I submitted that girl to hard punishment enemas and that did the work (hey, it worked for me) and now she is happy child with good grades that really does not give us any truoble, occasionally she has the hormome rush for a boy but she has behave properly so far. At one time my husband discover that she was dating a boy and he was the one that took her to the clinic to have her check, and beleive me they gave her a complete check up in the nude, with vaginal and a complete rectal check that included enemas and the proctoscope. But in the end the doctor told us that she was saying the truth and tha she was a virgin, thank God! The enemas that I gave that girl helped her endure that test and she has submitted to that test twice now with no problems, I am so proud of her. My husband has more trust in her and a better communication with her. But this was an incident inside the family that he considers that stays inside the family, other than the people at the clinic nobody knows. When I told him that I wanted to have a doctor gave a good check he reacted strongly against it. His reason is that I posted this in the forum and that I don't know who else will read it, he is afraid that people that we know will find out and critize us, that a lot of people will not understand, that we are a family of perverts. If I give and enema to the kids or he gives me one all this is done inside our home, in the privacy of our home, and that no one should know what's going on inside our house. He was very furious that people can critize us in the wrong way and that I went into the social media (thats how he call the forum)and that I talked with my nurse friend and with the doctor. He really is a good man and gas the best intention for his family, is just that is hard for him to understand the fetish I got for enemas and being subjected to several enemas and a rectal exam in a clinic. Right now I using the computers at the public library to write in the forum because I don't want to upset him but we have talked more relaxed now and at least he seem to listem to my reasons but has not agree to my request. So, yes I did not do it, I don't want to do something like that behind his back, my marriage means more to me than my desire for what he calls a fantasy. The bad thing is that our love life has gone down and while he still gives me my enema, he does not command me to get into the knee-chest position, he is disconnected and he seems uninterested, he seems to want to end quick and get it done with it, and that hurst me a lot.
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