Subject:  On Oprah yesterday |
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Gina
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Date Posted: 04:58:22 06/14/07 Thu
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It was about getting in touch with the sex kitten that lives inside of you. The one lady teaching others how to dance said, "It wants OUT!" I had to laugh as they showed women how to feel sexy when they dance and strip for their mate. I actually liked the part that showed how a woman could look her best with a simple trip to the hair salon and a new look. I loved that seeing as i own a hair salon and a boutique.*grin*
It makes me sad when women feel they can't be sexy until they take off that extra 20 pounds they are carrying.They can still look sexy even with that extra weight. When women tell me, "In a couple of months I will have it off." I wanna shout, "Get real" When I finally decided to get in shape and lose my extra baby weight it took me a good 6 to 8 months to lose 20 pounds. You have to dress nice and look nice while you are doing it. Baffles me sometimes that most let so much time pass being less then they can be in their appearence. Just because we have children at home, doesn't mean we can look and feel sexy.
Anyway, I had a few things I wanted to add to the show. First, pick music that you can "feel" when you are dancing.They were playing the slow stripper music on the show and even though the gal teaching the dance had it down, I wouldn't want to repeat her moves because they would look silly on me. I had to laugh at how she was making a big slow circle with her hips. They are her moves not mine, so even though she looked sexy doing it, it wouldn't be for me. We all have our own moves that express our body as sexy. Her moves worked for her but I think women should find the beat to their own drummer when stripping for their mate.Course it helps if he likes the music you are dancing to, but, I suppose if you didn't have music in common, you wouldn't be together in the first place, right?
Secondly, I think it is great when a woman finds her inner sex kitten, but, they fail to mention the attention that will come with it, once they let it out. These poor men are so pleased to see their new woman, but, they forget, other men will notice her too, especially if she is oozing sex appeal. I have seen many marriages that fall into a danger zone because the said female enjoys that attention a little more then their mate is prepared for, especially if it isn't something she was in touch with when they met. So, to me, it is not only important to be in touch with that, but hopefully the sex kitten has enough confidence to know,she is the same woman she was before the sexy makeover, but can handle the attention she will get from other men with class and style as well.
Did anyone happen to catch this show? I love the pole dance, but again, I would create my own moves with that rather then imitate that gals movements. Part of being sexy is making it your own, creating your very own sex appeal.
Oh and they had Sting on this show, he was talking about the type of love making he and his wife are into, to connect on a deeper level without just enjoying the act of sex. Loved it on him, he was adorable, more attractive then I have ever noticed before.
Cute show, had to share.
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