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[> Subject: Re: abortion?
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Author:
Melissa
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Date Posted: 23:11:34 02/01/07 Thu
Hello Eve,
I am new to this site and I felt I had to respond to our post. I know you are very scared right now and the last thing you need is more problems. What Kris says about the "tell" of your first abortion is very true. As a woman who had an abortion at the age of 17 I can totally relate to your fears. I made a mistake, however. Abortion was not the answer to my problem only a very temporary solution if you can call it that. Abortion is never the answer. It only adds to the problem. Some women don't even realize how bad this is until years later (like me) but it will catch up with you.
You can find help and answers in many different places. The first step for the immediate is to be positive you are pregnant. That can be accomplished through a pregnancy center asKris mentioned. Then if you are pregnant there are other choices besides abortion. I know it all seems very overwhelming right now but things will be better.
If you feel you cannot raise a child there are many loving, caring couples out there who would love to raise a baby. If you think you may want to raise a baby there are lots of people willing to help in that area as well. You just have to find them.
Again, I say abortion is not the answer. It not only harms the baby it harms you. Emotionally, possibly physically and definitely spiritually. God loves each of us and He has a plan for each of us even if we don't know or understand what that is. And in God's eyes no pregnancy is unplanned. And He can help you when you are ready to deal with your first abortion. Let me help you however I can and we can talk more if you would like. Let us know what happens.
Because of Him,
Melissa
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Re: abortion?