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Subject: My pregnancy

Author:
Cynthia (excited!)

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Date Posted: 00:09:24 01/23/08 Wed

I am 16 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been togather for almost 3 months we had sex on our first month togather now i am almost 3 months pregnant i dont know what to do either abort or have 2 kids when i have nowhere to go.My boyfriend doesnt work and i only work for a few hours implanning to abort but not tellmy boyfriend but i dont know ifthats right what should i do??

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[> Subject: Re: My pregnancy

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 22:06:54 01/23/08 Wed

Dear Cynthia,

I'm confused - your emotion says you are excited - and you are 3 months along - then you are saying you're planning to abort?

Listen, please hear me, an abortion is a PERMANENT answer to a TEMPORARY problem. Circumstances in life are always changing - your life can be so different at any moment.

The right thing also isn't always the easiest thing - yeah, 2 kids is not going to be easy - but an abortion is going to be a whole lot harder and something that will stay with you the rest of your life.

Please give some consideration to adoption - please call or go to a pregnancy center -

1-800-395-HELP

look up a center near you at this site:

http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

They can offer you so much help with just about anything.

Hugs,
Kris