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dont want this baby

Author:
nien (unhappy)

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Date Posted: 06:20:03 04/24/07 Tue

I am pregnant that i know for sure, but come i dont want this baby. I am 23 years old and my parents will have a heartattack if they must find out. my mother already knows, but everytime she askes me, i tell her its not true and that i dont know why my tummy is so big. any fool can see im pregnant, but i really need help, cause i dont want to go to a doctor, and as i have been told, i am about 7 or 8 months pregnant already. Anybody please help me before i get on a roof and jump from it?????????????????

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[> Subject: Re: dont want this baby

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 21:57:39 04/24/07 Tue

Dear Nien,

So, you haven't seen a doctor? You need to as soon as possible honey - that is very important for your health. Please look up a doctor and go see them. You can start with a Pregnancy Center - call 1-800-395-HELP or go here and look one up near you - www.optionline.org

It's important that you get some real help and support right now. No one wants to see you jump off a roof. You are precious and important.

The people at a pregnancy center can help you find a doctor and explore your options.

Please email me anytime if you want to:

Hopkinskc@aol.com

Hang in there,

Kris

[> Subject: Please email me
Author: Diane Cheryl (concerned) [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 21:49:24 04/25/07 Wed Hi Nien, Please email me as soon as possible. I would like to help and also you can post on this board http://www.voy.com/66018/ Hope to hear from you soon! Diane Cheryl

[> Subject: Re: dont want this baby
Author: Tera (Concerned) [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 22:44:33 04/26/07 Thu I will try to help in any way I can, if you just need to talk, or I can help you find the right resources to help you. Tera

[> Subject: Re: dont want this baby

Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 10:17:13 04/27/07 Fri

Nien,

This is no reason to jump off a roof. This is just a season, meaning this too will pass. There are couples out there who were trying for years and years to get pregnant and can who would love to adopt your baby. There are many ways adoption can happen and at no cost to you. You say you don't want your baby, maybe you could look at your baby as a special gift to another couple, because that's what they would see it as. You really need to see a doctor so you know what your due date is and how far along you are. This will soon be over, if you are 7 or 8 months along then you only have 1-2 months to go. Please talk to someone you trust soon. There are wonderful women here on the message board who will listen and help anyway they can (including me.)

Hugs,

Heather
songofjesus@yahoo.com