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Subject: Re: is natural abortion ok at least the first 2 weeks

Author:
Kris

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Date Posted: 08:18:18 09/24/07 Mon
In reply to: NADINE CINEUS 's message, "is natural abortion ok at least the first 2 weeks" on 20:32:14 09/20/07 Thu

Dear Nadine,

I'm also a little confused - but I gather you are late for your period, and you have a 2 month old baby. You're asking that IF indeed you're pregnant, is it OK to have a natural abortion? I'm not sure what a "natural" abotion is to you - to me, that would be loosing the baby through a miscarriage - a total work of nature - not something you or anyone else does to take that baby OUT of you before it's time to be born.

Sometimes, stress and worry will make your period late - your hormones could also be a little out of whack from many things after having a baby - so don't fret that your pregnant until you get a pregnancy test.

I also want to say that if indeed you are pregnant, you have a great husband that is supportive, and sure, he's not going through the C-section himself, but it sounds like he's the kind of guy that will stand by you and help you 100% - what a great thing you've got going there.

Please post an update and let us know what's going on. I may not have understood all the "facts" here and can offer more advice if you want me to.

Hugs,
Kris

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Heather
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Date Posted: 14:54:34 09/28/07 Fri

Nadine,

I'm sure you love your 2 children that you all ready have. It sounds like you are a wonderful mother. Can you live with yourself if you knew you caused the baby inside of you to die? If you are pregnant, God will make a way for you to get through this. Have you talked about this with your husband?

One of my pregnancies ended in a mis-carriage and I got pregnant a month afterwards. My mind was in a world-wind because I knew I wasn't pysically but especially emotionally not ready to be pregnant so soon. I know it's different in your situation because you have a 2 month old. I'm telling you this because it took 6 months for me to start to bond with my new pregnancy. Give yourself time to get use to the schedule of the new baby and educate yourself on what abortion will do to your body. Especially look into how it effects women emotionally.

Congradulations on your family. Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing.

Hugs,

Heather
songofjesus@yahoo.com