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Subject: Re: abortion

Author:
Kris

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Date Posted: 09:13:50 09/29/07 Sat
In reply to: sade 's message, "abortion" on 17:09:12 09/27/07 Thu

Dear Sade,

Please look up a center near you at this site:

http://www.optionline.org/hadabortion.html

They offer Post Abortion counseling for FREE and it would be very good for you to take advantage of it.

You can also visit this site:

http://www.safehavenministries.com/

They both offer more information and help for what you are going through. This is actually not an uncommon response for a woman to have.

You have suffered a loss, and there is guilt, anger & sadness that all go with that. It's important that you work through these things and not get stuck in any of them.

Hang in there, it will get better!

Kris

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Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 07:30:28 10/01/07 Mon

Sade,

Also, your boyfriend has suffered this loss as well. Some men are willing to step up to take care of the baby. The pregnancy was part of him too. I can't say why he's angry. Is he angry because you didn't ask him or because you had an abortion? Try not to think too much about how he feels-to try to figure it out or assume. Unless you can have a heart to heart talk, worrying doesn't help. Take care of yourself. The websites Kris suggested are good ones.

Hugs,

Heather