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Subject: Advice Needed A.S.A.P. Please

Author:
Tiffany (Worried)

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Date Posted: 20:24:51 12/07/07 Fri

Okay. I've never done a forum thing but i need help!!

My periods are very regular, and usually last 6 days.
My last period was November 6 through the 12th.

On November 21 I had a pap smear done so I could get started on birth control when my next period started.

I was in a 7 month relationship which broke off around the time i got my pap smear, it was an emotional crisis for me. We talk about getting back together, and then staying friends...It's immature I know, but the stress is overwhelming.

Him & I had sex on November 29. He went for a little, and then stopped, and we did other things until he ejaculated to make sure nothing happened. We had always used condoms, except that time.

I was his first person to have sex with and he didn't want to just have sex with anyone else when he hadn't been in a relationship with them, and he still has strong feelings for me.

It's now December 7 leaving me late by a day!!
I'm having mild cramping, but no period...

Could it just be the stress from the break up, or is it more likely that i could be pregnant?

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[> Subject: Re: Advice Needed A.S.A.P. Please

Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 21:08:12 12/08/07 Sat

Tiffany,

Anytime you have sex, with our without a condom, the chance of pregnancy exists. You could be late or skip because of the stress you're under. The stress could be caused by worrying about if you are pregnant or not.

I recommend you take a test to see if you are pregnant. You can get a free test at pregnancy center. Here's the website to look up one in your local area. They also have instant messaging and a toll free number. Optionline.org

Let us know how you're doing.

Heather

[> Subject: Re: Advice Needed A.S.A.P. Please

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 22:38:10 12/08/07 Sat

Dear Tiffany,

Stress would cause your period to be late. However, if your period doesn't start, you should take a pregnancy test. You can get a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test at a pregnancy center. Look one up near you at this site:

www.optionline.org

or call:

1-800-395-HELP

You may want to hold off on starting your b/c (if it's the pill or other hormone) until you have a negative test.

You also may want to re-consider being sexually active, as the risks are so great and costly. Spend some time at this site:

www.getthetruth.com

Kris