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Subject: Re: please answer back i need help really bad! Author: Diane Cheryl [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:44:24 04/04/06 Tue In reply to: Gabrielle 's message, "please answer back i need help really bad!" on 09:40:48 04/04/06 Tue Hi Gabrielle, Thanks for your post. I hope you will email me so we can talk more. It might not be possible for you to have an abortion without your parent's permission. It is a serious procedure and not something to take lightly. You can get help and/or advice at these websites. http://www.lifecall.org or http://www.optionline.org Hope to hear from you by email as well at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com talk soon! Diane Cheryl [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: please answer back i need help really bad! Author: Pat [Edit] Date Posted: 15:34:01 04/04/06 Tue Hi, Gabrielle, I do not recommend you try to get an abortion to hide your pregnancy from your parents. If you get hurt, they will find out. And abortion is rather dangerous, so you stand a good chance of getting hurt. Even if you don't get hurt, it will affect your life, and your parents may figure out what the problem is, or you may even end up telling them, or someone else might. Your parents are legally responsible for you. If you get hurt, they will have to pay for your medical care. Some women your age have even been killed by abortion, and their parents found out when they were already dead, or when they couldn't be saved. How would you feel if that happened to your parents? Abortions are done with sharp instruments on a soft uterus, and the abortionist cannot see what he is doing. Injuries are common. Most abortionists even rush through it, and they do not make sure that the woman doesn't have a medical problem that would make abortion more dangerous. Please tell us why you want to keep it a secret. What are you afraid of? Maybe we can address some of those issues. We're here for you. But please don't hurt yourself, and don't take a chance. You deserve better. Hugs, Pat