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Subject: Definitely unplanned Author: Leslie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:14:52 06/14/08 Sat Hi. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for 2 years. And I mean really off with him seeing other women and I've seen other men. We just recently decided to try to make it work. The reason for us breaking up is that his parents do not approve of our relationship and he doesn't know how to cut them out of his life but with his recent decision he states that this time it's going to be different. I am 29 and was married very early. I had 2 abortions then and later on widowed. I don't regret my choice. I just got liposculputure last oct. 2007 and I work in dance so I need my body. Regardless of if he stays or not should I even consider having this child? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Definitely unplanned Author: Kris [Edit] Date Posted: 21:13:20 06/15/08 Sun Dear Leslie, I'm a little confused by your post. I take it you are pregnant - how far along are you? How does your boyfriend feel about it? How do you really feel about it? I am always for having a baby - and I like to say that abortion is a permanent answer for temporary problems. So, you ask should you even consider having this baby? YES. You should consider it, consider how it will enrich and enhance your life. I have two children - I can't imagine my life without them. Kris [ Post a Reply to This Message ]