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Subject: Re: What to do, what to do....


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Jenni
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Date Posted: 03/ 6/06 6:13pm
In reply to: Lori 's message, "Re: What to do, what to do...." on 03/ 6/06 1:14pm

Thank you everyone so much for your support...yet again :) This guy has caused so much drama in my life...way to much to get into here, but it's just too bad that it has to be his kid I'm having...since this really should be one of the happiest times of my life...

I am in no way going to let him sway me. I have made my decision, and I am sticking to it. I am already feeling pangs of excitement, and have even started thinking of names (which, apparently, I get to pick all by myself, so I have free range of choices!). I am still absolutely scared, stressed out, and haven't told my family yet (except my sister, who is soooooo excited), but I feel like I can handle this situation with the help I know I will receive.

And, as I side note, I would never consider quitting school. I was just extremely stressed out...Now, I have another life to think of besides mine, and finishing this program and having the career of my dreams (being a pediatric occupational therapist) will enable me to provide the best life I can for my child and myself, regardless of if the father is in the picture.

Oh, and I have used the arguments with the father that the little one already has a heartbeat, it's genetic characteristics determined, it's spine and brain forming rapidly, and already developing arms and legs, and that bothers him, but his response is, "it's not a baby yet...just take the pill" (as in the abortion pill)....I am still hoping he'll come around, but I won't hold my breath.

Jenni

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Lori
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Date Posted: 03/ 7/06 10:50pm

Hi Jenni,

I'm so glad that you are being so strong about this, I really admire your courage and motivation. Your going to make a wonderful mom.

I'm glad that you have your sister to offer you support. Maybe your sister could help you tell your family?? I know you feel overwhelmed and stressed right now but just try to relax some. Make sure you get plenty of rest and take your vitamins.

Please continue to keep us updated. YOu'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless,
Lori



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