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Subject: Re: i really need advice

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Pat

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Date Posted: 06/19/09 10:31pm
In reply to: melissa 's message, "i really need advice" on 06/18/09 5:39pm

Hi, Melissa,

I am very glad you came. Let me ask you a question or two. Are you thinking of having an abortion to hide your pregnancy from your parents?

If that is the case, please be aware that abortion can do grave harm to your body, and then they will find out that you were pregnant AND you had an abortion. They will also probably have to pay for your medical care.

Do you think your parents will try to force you to have an abortion?

You should talk to a crisis pregnancy organization. They can help you with these decisions, and with the problems you face, including dealing with your parents.

To find one in New Zealand, go here:

www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp

Choose New Zealand from the country dropdown list. There are 28 organizations on two pages. You can click on the "details" button to get phone numbers and addresses.

We will be here for you; please feel free to come and talk to us any time. Don't let anybody tell you abortion is safe. It's not. It can take your life. It doesn't matter what kind of abortion a woman gets. They're all dangerous.

You deserve better. We love you and will pray for you. Please let us know how you do.

Hugs,
Pat

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