Author: Mandy ((scared and all alone))
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Date Posted: 12/29/07 5:33pm
My name is Mandy, I'm 19, and just discovered that I am pregnant. I missed a period (maybe 2??), and I am experiencing morning sickness.
My situation: I live at home with my parents, I have a part time job, and I am going to college. My boyfriend (whom got me pregnant) is 23 and lives with his parents still also. He is unemployed...
I can't tell my parents about this, so i really just need someone to listen, and perhaps encourage me. My parents are very religious...meaning "pre-marrital sex is a sin". I agree with this...but alas...I am pregnant. Obviously, I'm a sinner. BUT...I believe abortion is murder, and so, even though that seems to be an "easy out", I WILL NOT allow myself to even consider it.
My boyfriend...he says the decision is mine. He has expressed that he wants me to keep the baby, and he would help me raise it. I have expressed that I am seriously considering placing the baby up for adoption. He was angry about that...but still says it's up to me, and either way he will still be with me. BUT honestly, WHO KNOWS???
I am actually under the impression that he is in denial that i am pregnant, (I have no outward physical signs yet). I am praying to GOD that he doesn't see my tummy getting big, freak out, and leave me. I'm so scared.
Neither of us are really in the position to care for a child.
And I have no idea how my parents will react. They may find out and never let me out of the house to see my boyfriend again, or they will kick me out...
I'm going crazy. because i just want so bad to be able to talk to my mom about it, without her going crazy.
I feel so alone with my emotions. it's awful =[
I want to move out and get an apartment by myself, i dont even care if my boyfriend wants to. but i don't think i can afford it, on only $100 a week.
wow i wrote alot, and i still feel like i haven't expressed all of my emotions on this...
but i hope someone will read this...
Mandy
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