Author:
Tracey (Welcome Mary!!! :))
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Date Posted: 11/13/08 8:00am
Mary~
Hello and welcome!!! I just want to give you a hug!! :) You are dealing with so many emotions right now...I have to first tell you, this is normal in this situation! You weren't expecting this, so your whirlwind of emotions and feelings are okay and quite understandable. I'm so glad you found us! The ladies here have already offered you some amazing advice! First off, thank God it wasn't what you thought it was--cancer! But the fact that you found out it was pregnancy, probably knocked you off your feet, I'm sure! :) I also want to remind you that the first trimester of pregnancy is always emotional--our hormones are all over the place, but it does get beter in the second!!! Add total shock and surprise to that, it's no wonder you are feeling the way you are! So, allow yourself time to digest all of this. You may have had a difficult time as a child being in foster care, so you are scared of the mother you will be. Mothering isn't always taught...it just is! It's instinctual..built right into our bodies, our senses, and our emotions. You are going to do an amazing job! We are here to help and guide you through this and help you make sense of all your feelings and emotions! Give yourself time...you are still in shock. But soon, my dear, you will be rejoicing, planning, waiting, and anticipating. God gave you all these emotions, feelings, and instincts as a woman and soon you will begin to see them unfold. If not right away, soon. We promise to be here and guide you! So, Congratulations to you...you are already a mother and my prayer is that you will soon embrace this amazing gift! I cannot explain to you in words the amazing gift of being a mother...the feeling you get from just holding that little one for the first time, watching their first steps, and just knowing that this is a part of you is such an incredible thing to be a part of...I am praying for you, Mary! Please continue to come back and keep us posted! We are here, Mary!!!
God bless,
Tracey
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