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Subject: Re: What's a guy to do

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luka

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Date Posted: 01/ 9/08 3:16am
In reply to: Pat 's message, "Re: What's a guy to do" on 01/ 5/08 12:43pm

I'd like to add to what Pat said. Abortions damage a womans uterus! I know because i have had a few and mine is damaged which has made my last 2 pregnancies risky not only to my baby but my own life. Most women don't realise what damage is being done untill something bad happens during a pregnancy. I am lucky in that i know about the extent of damage done because i had to have an emergency c section one time and was told. Really it's bad news. I have had an abortion under twilight sedation, youre semi consious but don't remeber anything afterwards. I have faint memories though and i know i screamed and fought. I remember pain. It was extremely distressing. Wether or not a woman is awake , the same thing goes on. I wish for you that you are able to both have your baby and work it out somehow. The alternative is not something that ever leaves you. You can sweep it under the carpet and do your best to move on but it can't ever be undone.

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Author: Heather [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 01/10/08 10:33pm "The alternative is not something that ever leaves you. You can sweep it under the carpet and do your best to move on but it can't ever be undone." Wow, thank you for post, Luka, and for being willing to share part of your life and experience. You're amazing.

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Re: What's a guy to do

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Jonathan (HELP)
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Date Posted: 01/24/08 1:41pm

Me and My Girlfriend of a year and a half have been broke up for about a month, in that month she got pregnant..The father says he will be their,He just joined the army to support them.Her family has disowned her for this pregnancy
all she has is me and the father.Im 500 Miles away in college, He's at basic training. She feels she has made a big mistake with the pregnancy And who the father is. We still love each other and we want to be together but the father wants to be with her and she doesnt want the child to grow up without the father..She said everything just happened so fast..I Want To Help Her. The father doesnt want me talking to her but she even said He would not come between us!!!I KNOW ONE THING FOR SURE THE CHILD DID NOT CHOOSE TO BE BROUGHT IN THIS WORLD AND I DONT WANT HIM/HER TO SUFFER FOR IT!!!