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Re: Having an abortion tomorrow

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Alison

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Date Posted: 10/11/07 5:58pm
In reply to: Shellie 's message, "Re: Having an abortion tomorrow" on 10/11/07 5:44pm

Thanks for all the fast replies. My appointment is first thing tomorrow morning, and I am not sure if I can do it, I feel really pressured by my parents though. If I don't do this, they will kick me out, and told me they will never have contact with me or my daughter again. That would ruin my daughter, she's very close to her grandparents. I KNOW they would do this too, they do not like my ex, and told me that they won't have anything to do with me if I have a child that is half his.

I face either hurting myself, and having this abortion. Or I face hurting my daughter by having this baby, having my daughter possibly see and have contact with the person who abused her, and having her grandparents out of her life and us living someplace I'd rather not live. If I have the abortion, my daughter gets to be free from the person who abused her, this baby will never have a father that might abuse him/her, my daughter still has her grandparents, and my parents even offered to buy me a condo as long as I don't have the baby. Right now my only wish would be that my parents would have a change of heart. I'd definitely be having this baby if I had this support. And by the way, my parents forced me into an abortion when I was still a teenager by bribing me in a similar way. When I got pregnant with my daughter, I didn't tell them until I was 17 weeks, and planned on doing that this time too, but someone spilled the news too soon and now they're putting the threats on again, only this time, they're real, and I am scared of the alternative to having this abortion.

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