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Subject: Re: Couldn't have - Can't have

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luka

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Date Posted: 10/17/07 2:16am
In reply to: Tara 's message, "Re: Couldn't have - Can't have" on 10/15/07 11:13am

It sounds as if you'e made up your mind and are feeling like the people telling you not to abort are giving you a guilt trip. Thats not my intention here. However, if there is any part of you that wants this baby. Could you not wait untill around 12 weeks and have a scan that will be more thorough and just 'see' what they say? I wonder what would happen if you saw another doctor and not told him of your medication and just had a 12 week morphology scan. I wonder if they would find anything wrong? There is indeed a possibility that your baby is ok. There have been a few rare cases of newborns with cancer that have had to go through chemotherapy and survived so which makes me wonder about your own baby. Did the doctor explain what he thought was wrong with your baby. Do they have any medial exapmles of children born after their mother had taken the medication you are on or are they just theorising? I hope you make a decision you can live with either way. I am not judging you here. I have had abortions before i am in no position to judge anyone. Good luck. I hope you feel comfortable enough to let us know what happens and how youre holding up.

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