Author:
Tracey
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Date Posted: 10/22/07 4:34pm
Kate~
I want to stress to you the importance of talking this through...right now you have a thousand and one thoughts running through just your mind only. You almost feel hostage to these feelings and that if you say what you're feeling out loud then you will most likely regret saying them or feel bad about what you are feeling. But you are feeling them and if you force yourself to just deal, your stress level and depression level will only rise. I do want to stress that pregnancy can cause your hormones to be so out of wack--trust me, I've had 4 children and KNOW my hormones were all over the place--it felt like PMS X10!!! I'm not gonna push you to do anything you don't want, but please know that it won't hurt to at least look into contacting a center. I can even call for you ahead of time and explain your situation if that made you more comfortable. Now, I'm done with that--I won't keep pushing! :) It is good you have found a place to come and talk....we don't judge you here, Kate. And you can express anything you are feeling even if it feels wrong or makes you feel bad. You are not a bad person, Kate! You are just in a really crazy situation right now, trying to do the right thing and be responsible. Right now you feel like your world is crashing, but I promise you there are resources to help you. You just need to look into them.
Have you talked at all anymore to this guy? If so, has he given you any inclination how he feels. I mean, I understand, the obvious thing is that he's not happy...but will he talk to you or has he cut you off completely?
Kate, I promise to help and be there if you need to talk anytime. You are not alone! Please continue to come back and let me know how you are doing/what you need. I will be praying for you and this little one.
God bless,
Tracey
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