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Subject: Re: did I make the right decision?

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Dixie

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Date Posted: 04/ 2/07 7:17am
In reply to: Pat 's message, "Re: did I make the right decision?" on 03/13/07 8:03pm

Thanks to all you for your answering. I am happy with my decision to have this baby. My guy has somewhat come to terms with the idea.....I think. He went from trying to get me to drink and to have an abortion to the exact opposite....He doesn't want to take me anywhere....He still comes around, but we don't go around his family or friends. His family does know now and they are excited about the new baby. I found out from his sister that his ex-wife had 2 abortions. Apparently, they were both without his consent and that really hurt him. She couldn't understand why he would want to go through it again. I guess I can't expect a miracle with him. I guess time will tell.

Hugs,
Dixie

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Shellie
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Date Posted: 04/ 2/07 2:21pm

Hi Dixie,

Thanks for checking in and letting us know how you're doing. I'm happy that your boyfriend is no longer pressuring you to abort. I'm sure that makes things easier. But I hope he soon gives you the support you truly deserve. And there is a good chance that he will. Guys usually need more time to fall in love with their unborn children.

You're in my thoughts and prayers. Post as often as you like. I love to hear the updates and continue to offer support throughout your pregnancy--and beyond.

Take care,

Shellie