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Subject: Re: Help PLEASE! Author: Donna [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07/15/07 8:47pm In reply to: Lacey 's message, "Help PLEASE!" on 07/11/07 6:21pm Hi Lacey, My name is Donna. I have been away and just saw your posting. I don't think I could say a whole lot more to you than the other ladies have but I want to offer my prayers to you. I have been apart of this board for many years now, praying for women that are in the same position you are in right now. One month ago, my son and his girlfriend came to me and shared that they were expecting. I can now speak from my heartfelt experience. I am so hurt that your parents are pushing you to have the abortion, I just can't imagine this and it must break your heart into a zillion pieces. My guess is that you would love nothing more than to have gone to your parents and found love and encouragement and trust from them that you would do what is right for you and your baby. I won't lie to you and say that we were jumping up and down the first day , we struggled like every other normal family does, but it didn't come from anything but worry about the circumstances. I prayed about it, my husband and I talked and talked and talked. We realized that our children need us, that they are probably scared themselves and we will support them and be of nothing but uplifting encouragement. We have learned that we are getting twins, Now they definetly need us more than ever. We will be there every step of the way to be supportive and we are excited about the fun to come to our family in the near future. These are our grandchildren...If you feel in your heart that abortion is not the right choice for you...Please don't do it..don't make a decision based on other's opinions..this is a decision that must come from you. You are the main player ...you are the mother, the caretaker to that little person inside you. Without you...he/she could not exist. I encourage you, even if you do go to the clinic tomorrow, to request an ultra sound prior. I think you'll be very amazed at that little peanut on the screen. We saw our 7 week 4 day old grandchildren in regular Ultra sound as well as the new 4D...Your baby is definetly a little person, don't let anyone try to tell you they aren't. You will have to live the rest of your life with the choice you make...there will be so many bright exciting days ahead for you if you choose to give your child life. Experiences that will be priceless. I'm so afraid of the days ahead for you if you choose to end your sweet angels life..I think you'll find yourself very very sad and regretful. Hugs, Donna [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Help PLEASE! Author: Antonella (hey sweetie!!!) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07/16/07 1:14am Hey sweetie ;) nice to talk to you, I really care about this situation becuase I lived something like this in my life and I know that it's not easy, but life is always worthy and running away isn't the solution because what goes around, comes around. Even if sometime I feel lonely and depressed, the best is to look inside myself and feel comfortable, I just need myself and my son to support all in the hard time. So just think positive!!! take care!