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Hayley
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Date Posted: 07/23/06 6:18pm
In reply to:
luka
's message, "showing" on 07/21/06 6:31pm
Hi Luka,
I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling a bit alone in all of this :) I can imagine that would get you down at times, but try to remember how temporary those feelings are :) Some people cannot have any children at all, due to infertility or other problems, but right at this very moment, you are participating in the creation of a new life and that IS eternal!! In raising your children (and your new baby to come), you are 'crafting their souls' for all of eternity.. you are building their personalities, teaching them about strength, integrity, kindness and goodness.
I know this doesn't help with feeling isolated from other adults who really care, but just think.. one day, all three of these little people are going to be fully grown adults! And because of what you are going through right now, I bet that your bond with your children is going to be cemented so firmly into adulthood and beyond. Can you imagine when you are middle-aged? You will have three (or maybe more!) beautiful adult children who you will be able to go shopping with, have a coffee with, chat to over the phone. And when your little ones have babies, you will experience the joys of being a grandmother... I know it all seems so far off at the moment, but with your little ones by your side, you will never grow old as a lonely little woman :)
And you know what, there is plenty of time to meet Mr Right! Some people don't find that person until later in life, and perhaps right at this moment, you are being called to nurture the little one growing inside you and your other two children.. before the right one shows up!
I am also from Australia.. I have never experienced an unplanned pregnancy, but I read this website for the wonderful work of the woman on here :) Where abouts do you live? I live on the mid-north coast of NSW, it's probably nowhere near you, but perhaps we could organise something?? Just let me know anyway :)
Take care, and you are in my prayers,
Hayley :)
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