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Subject: Re: need some advice

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luka

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Date Posted: 08/ 7/06 6:46pm
In reply to: shelby 's message, "need some advice" on 08/ 7/06 10:45am

Oh honey i don't know what to say :( Youre only 14? My god! I am so so sorry sweetie. Can you tell us a little more about your situation? Do have a have a good relationship with your parents? If you were my daughter i would not be angry at you for what has happened that for sure. I don't think you have anything to fear there. I can imagien a whole lot of people will be assuming and wanting you to have an abortion. How do you feel though? I think it's important for you to explore those feelings before making a decsion about the life of your baby. I had an abortion at your age also. My mum made me go through with it. Strangely i can't remember how i got pregnant but i was being abused at the time so it may have been from that. I felt that i loved my baby pretty soon after finding out though. And i tried to not go through with it but i was too young to realise that i would have been able to go ahead and keep my baby. It did affect me though i was never the same after that. Do you feel anything towards your baby? I am not going to pressure you to make any decisions here. I would just like for you to have the opportunity to work out what it is that you're feeling inside and go from there because wether or not you have an abortion it will affect you for the rest of your life. So it's very important that you make an informed decision and one that you can make peace with. God bless you sweetheart please do come by any time we are all most sympathetic and willing to help out in any way we can.
Just a thought but maybe one of us lives close by and could be there physically some of the time to support you.

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