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Subject: Concern for Clueless freind


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Allen
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Date Posted: 05/ 8/08 11:20am

My best freind and I have always been considered to be a bit clumsy and reckless individually. Together we proved to be a trainwreck combination, but it was fun during the time.
Luckily, I finished college while he failed out, and had to move home to go to a smaller college. His family has been more than understanding with him, offering him another chance at school, and a chance at having a normal relationship with the themselves as family members. Nine months ago he started his journey to rebuild his life and relationships with his family.
He did not have much stimulation back at home, finding himself bored most of the time. He eventually found something to do, and accidentlly concieved a child with a freind.
To top it off his gf lives overseas and only comes to visit for a couple months a year. The girl he impregnanted is nothing more than a freind.
After speaking with him he is pretty much clueless. He said he is calculating his next moves before he tells his parents. He does not have the means to calculate any solutions.
They are going to have the child, yet he is in the dark about what to expect. He uses recreational drugs as well that screw his perception as well.
How can I pull him out of the clouds to what his reality will become?

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