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I had a termination 7 weeks ago and i knew deep down that i wanted to keep it but the circumstances with my fiancee were rough and we were going through a huge rough patch , i thought he would of been over the moon like i was but he wasnt . We both regret it so much and this pain im feeling hurts and hurts , my partner says that we will have a baby one day when the time is right cause we are both still in our 20's and im finishing off my degree but at this stage all i can think about is the longing for my baby back and how silly i was for not standing up for what i wanted and doing the right thing by everyone else. I have learnt the most valuable lesson from terminating our baby and i will always think of that little baby that could of been however i know that i must move on and forgive myself ..the only advice i can ever give to someone is take the time to think it over and dont rush into having a termination
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Welcome to the board. I know that your going through a really tough time right now. Thank you for sharing your experience in hopes that others will be helped.
When we seek forgiveness and forgive ourselves we can move past the pain and help others who are on the same journey. That is where the healing begins, in helping others.
If you haven't already done so, you should go to www.afterabortion.com. There are plenty of women on this site who have experienced PASS.
If you ever need someone to talk to, please feel free to email me any time.
God Bless,
Lori
I didn't see your message right away. I am so glad you came!
Of course you are thinking of your baby! My heart goes out to you. I appreciate the fact you are sharing this with all of us. Oh, how I wish I could talk to every woman while she still has a choice! Above all, a woman should listen to her heart. She has to live with the consequences. You are lucky you have a man who shares the grief you are experiencing.
Forgiving yourself is hard, but a woman can do this. Above all, forgiveness is a decision, not an emotion. You may not want to forgive yourself, but you can choose to accept the situation and your part in it, and go on from here. There will be things you can do as a result of your new insight. It is so wonderful that already you are reaching out to others. This will help more than anything else.
I hope and pray you will be able to go on from here and experience peace.
