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>My husband and I have been together for 12 years, >married almost 3. >He has cheated on me in the past, but I have always >tried to put it aside, last year he became good >"friends" with his friends wife, they were e mailing, >talking on the phone and it seemed like they were >always trying to find an excuse to do things, last May >or June I told him that it bothered me that they >talked, he told me that he just likes talking to her, >in August he left me, about a week or two later she >kicked her husband out, I know that they talked alot >about the kind of marriage that they each had, 2 >months before this her and her husband were planning >on having another child, all of a sudden she is no >longer happy? I was devastated, he told me that he >needed to find himself, and that he just needed space >and that it had nothing to do with her. I even tried >to talk to her about how I felt and her response was >"its not my fault that he does not love you anymore, >we were friends longer then you have known him" I just >hung up on her. He came back a couple of months later, >I know that he has been talking to her I just cannot >prove it, I didn't even know that he had a cell phone >until I found it in his toolbox, he goes out and don't >come home until the next day and won't tell me where >he is, he said that he does not want me bothering the >only friend he has left nad that he is not at her >house, he will take his cell phone EVERYWHERE, we have >no service in the town we live in so for him to take >it intown makes no sense to me at all. >I just don't know what to do anymore, I have these >thoughts that just do not go away, ever! Each time he >has cheated I have "felt" it before he told me and I >have this same feeling, I cannot believe for one >minute that nothing has ever happened between the 2 of >them, they are both extremely sexual people and when >alcohol is involved... >If anyone has any thoughts or advice on how to help >ease my mind I would love to hear them.

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