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Date Posted: 08:38:06 03/31/02 Sun
Author: Lisa
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Subject: Gale
In reply to: Gale 's message, "I like You all" on 06:14:18 03/31/02 Sun

I'm trying to figure out if you read my last email to you (you know - my response to your venting). You say you're unhappy there. You say that what Jim did was unfair. YET - you continue to go there and then say what a wonderful place it is (I've seen your posts praising Jim and his wonderful site *sarcasm in that last part*). You have been a victim of Jim - yet you praise him????????? You say there is nowhere else to go. You say that you go there only for a few friends.

I will repeat myself from my email to you: IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT - LEAVE.

There are millions of other places to go. There's email, IM, phone, heck - regular snail mail for that matter. If these people were true friends - they will keep in contact with you. Look at all of us here. Heck - I just met one of my girls last weekend. So don't tell me there's nowhere else to go. That's plain bullshit.

So my assumption is: You do like it there. Period. And that's fine, BUT stop with the "oh - it's just not the same and Jim is unfair" emails/posts. You look like a hypocrite.

I don't understand how somebody who vented to me the way you did, refuses to change the situation by leaving. Doesn't make sense to me unless - your email to me was to see my response and then send it to others (you know who I mean), which would be fine. I could care less if they know what I think of them.

I have NO personal problem with you Gale - I don't know you to say I do. I AM tired of your self contradictions. I wouldn't ask anyone to choose between friends - that's just childish and stupid. I think that happened to me in 6th grade once. You don't need the ShitStop to keep a friend - to me - that sounds like an excuse. Sorry - but it does.

I also told you in my email, that what you see (read) from me - is what you get. I don't sugarcoat anything, I don't lie, and I surely don't stay in situations that make me unhappy. And although I may hurt feelings sometimes with my honesty and openness - my friends know that they can count on me to do just that. Be honest and Open, and I expect the same from them! When I see a person saying one thing and doing another - that makes me not trust them, hence, not want to be a part of their world.

As I've stated in my email to you - It's a trust thing. I am assuming others feel the same way. And if I'm wrong in that assumption - I hope those others speak up. You know what they say about assuming ;)

I'm sorry if this sounds harsh - just calling it as I see it.

Have a great Easter and take care of yourself.
(sorry for the book Ranee)

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