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Date Posted: 21:04:10 10/17/04 Sun
Author: rebecca
Subject: IN LOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND[help]

i really don't know where to start. i met this guy last year during our freshman year. we got really close and stuff. we ahve a pretty flirtatious relationship and i started to like him. i told him twice. he knew. he still flirted around, we spend SO much time together. anyways what was the point? he told a fren that he saw me as long term material and he didn't see me in 'that' way.i had to get over this but guess what. this year i realised i am now OFFICALLY in love with him. the other day he tells me that it is possible to fal in love with someone when u spend a lot of time with them etc etc..i was like uhhh! i know there must be something there because he does tell me i'm really attractive and can have any guy i want but at the same time he also says things like [when he talks about hot girls and i say hey i'm here] yeah u'd be top on my list if u wereN'T off limits!as in we're FRIENDS!i really don't know what to do and i can't even let go of him, maybe it also feels like i do a lot of the calling and arranging to meet up, should i just stop? give up? he always talks about wanting to be in a meaningful relationship and it's like HELLO i am here.he sees me as a FRIEND! but i know there is some attraction there that he is definately not willing to acknowledge. all i knowis i am SO sick of feeling this way.HELP

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