Dean doesn't like me - even though I've done a lot for him. Don't why and don't care anymore. He treated me like dirt last time I was there so I'm afraid I definitely won't be appearing on his show.
On your other point I think we can always trace the answers to humans and not spirits. I'm sorry for your experience, but what does it tell you? Surely you are now better equipped to deal with future situations that may arise as a result of your spirit work. I would take solace in that and not let it rattle me too much.
As workers in the field we need a healthy degree of cynicism in order to sort the wheat from the chaff. Sounds to me like you've reached a turning point in your spiritual journey and that can only be a good thing as there are no retrograde steps where the Spirit are concerned.
I hope you will no longer be misled by spirits who expect you to accept them for who they are and what they say they are. This is why we must always seek the highest and best. And once we dwell there with them - whether it be in meditation or other method - we can never be fooled again.
As for those whose destiny seems to be poverty ... well, what can one say? We each have the power of choice in this life over how we do what we do. Leave them to it, I say. It shows you where not to be.