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Thalia
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Date Posted: 05:49:26 02/14/08 Thu
In reply to:
Maryse
's message, "Re: Abuser and Abusee" on 00:11:50 02/14/08 Thu
Maryse,
I find that the following things that you said so TRUE:
"to destroy someone without having to dirt one’s hand"
They use a "paravent" (window shield) to do their dirty work while having their hands clean. However, this is what I have to say to these people:
- In the short run, they can get away with it. In the long run, people will notice and find out the truth. What is sad is that in the process, many people's life have been destroyed. Some people have the courage and strength to come on the front line and tell how these people have destroyed them. They are really helping their neighbours so that they do not suffer their ordeal.
- Spirits see everything from their thoughts and actions. Therefore there is no need in hiding. Spirit is like the child who can see that the Emperor had no clothes on !
- Sooner or later, these persons will have to come Face to Face with what they have done. The sooner, the better and especially while they are still on earth.
"The victim is someone who has too much tolerance, too much compassion, too much trust, and this enabled the perverse anchoring of the abuser."
That's so TRUE ! There is nothing wrong in having these qualities that unfortunately not many people have. The problem is when the abuser take advantage of them. That is why, as you said, we need to have common sense, be firm, not let others control us and enough is enough.
"All their life will consist in searching their reflection in the eyes of the others. The others do not exist as individuals, but as mirror."
That's a SAD TRUTH. These people are generally unhappy with themselves, have a lot of negative emotions in their heart and the only way to get them out is to transfer them to the others. In that way, others become unhappy and they are happy that others are also unhappy.
Yesterday I said to myself that if I was aware of many things that you said in your postings, then I would have been and acted differently in the past. You have travelled to many countries, have so much experiences including being sting by a jelly fish and in the process you seem to have learned a lot. I think that everything comes in its own time and if you have not learned, then you would not have been able to share with us.
There is a saying that life is too short to make all the mistakes or experience. Therefore we have to learn from the mistakes or experiences of others.
I am on this forum almost everyday, trying to digest whatever I can and most of all trying to have an OPEN mind.
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