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Date Posted: 02:04:46 02/20/08 Wed
In reply to:
Mark
's message, "Re: The Huge Ego of the abusers" on 21:00:32 02/18/08 Mon
Mark,
As usually, the spirit guides gave me again a direction to answer to you. Yesterday night, they told me to look for St Jean Chrysostome on Internet, and they added: « Se dénier soi-même est un péché très grave». For the « Eagle Phata », they talked in English, but this time the message was in French. In English, Jean is John, so it is John Chrysostome, and the translation of what they said is: « To accept to not exist is a very serious sin ». It is about submission and about the slave mentality of acceptation anything that is wrong, acceptation of the abuses. The abusers (like at the time of the Nazis) mean that their victims should not exist, and the acceptation of such disgusting attitudes is an as serious sin! We have come on this planet to understand the energy of domination and control, and « TO BE », i.e. « TO EXIST ».
In the case of the abusers, THEY EXIST TOO MUCH! They want to DOMINATE & CONTROL and keep people under their bondage as consenting slaves, or slaves too paralysed by the fear to escape from their captivity. You recognise the abusers by their BIG MOUTH, trying to impress the people, and keeping them under the fear, without any respect for them or for their freedom, playing all kinds of games, and lie with a lot of nerve. The abusers are like these wild lace weeds called bindweeds. If the esoteric gardener leave the bindweeds becoming too powerful, then they will dominate in the garden, they will strangulate all the other plants, and these plants will not grow, they will degenerate and become weaker and weaker, and at the end all the plants will die. So the esoteric gardener has to contain the bindweeds.
In the case of the victims, THEY DON’T EXIST ENOUGH or THEY DON’T EXIST ANYMORE otherwise they would not still be there where they are, kept in MENTAL captivity.
About the two Pillars of Hercules (or Herakles), they are maybe representing the abusers and the victims that are the two kinds of inhabitants on this planets. And it is a relation of hate between them. They hurt each others. That’s why Ma Anandamayi said to never be a leech or a bug, i.e. an empty selfish narcissist vampire that has to fill its own existence with others’ blood, others’ life, others suffering.
About yourself, you question yourself too much, and this is because of your fragility. Your fragility is interpreted as a weakness enabling the abusers to anchor their work of destruction. In you, there is already a great deal of guilt, and the FEAR TO APPEAR the bad one because of the systematic destruction work your mother, or other people, did on you. For her, you should have stayed near her as her eternal slave.
Once, at Christchurch (NZ) Emma Hardinge told me: « Maryse, you take care too much about your family. They deserve nothing. ». That’s a language of common sense. Because of the Moses commandments, which might be accurate at his time but which are no more accurate for our 21st century, we all feel guilty if we stay away from the destructive power of our parents or other family members. We should not! We should think about our safety first! And we should consider if they really deserve our cares. As I already wrote, the treats and the encouragements are for those who are trying hard to reform their personalities.
Parents should always be guided and led by the inner life of the child, and work to draw out the child’s inner wisdom and goodness. The people who learn the most and grow the most rapidly are those who are helping others learn and grow. Anyone who is parent ought to know this. The infant must depend on his or her parents in order to learn the basic lessons of growing up. But the parents, if they are at all intelligent, learn far more from the child than the child learns from the parent. The parents learn to be compassionate, nurturing, and kind; they learn to make sacrifices and fulfil responsibilities. These are far more advanced and important lessons than the child is learning. The same idea applies to learning to help the plant kingdom or the animal kingdom to evolve.
But unfortunately some parents are not always the best friends of their children… And if it not the case and if there are destructive behaviours, gossiping, pettiness, jealousy or vampirism against their own children, then the children should be realistic and be strong enough to take care about themselves first, and to keep themselves at a great great distance from these parents in order not to continue to be influenced and be kept in mental disability.
Mark, you have a problem with the definitions of « ego » and « selfishness ».
An EGO is not bad to have, we should all have an ego, but an ego that is balanced or « enlightened ». An abuser who wants to dominate and control has an unbalanced ego. A fanatic religious has an unbalanced ego. An abusee who is too weak has an unbalanced ego. To have a « balanced ego » is to find the right middle where everyone is respected, including our own selves first; where the freedom of each one is respected; where the teachings are adapted according to the personality of the children or to the life of the students, and not a dictatorship; where we know who we are and this knowledge is solidly grounded; where we are FREE and INDEPENDANT.
- An abuser has to learn TO SHUT his big mouth, to purify his mouth, and to have more humility and more respect for the others. ALL the abusers like the secrets so that they can continue to abuse the others and commit their dirty crimes in secret.
- An abusee should learn TO OPEN his mouth louder, with more firmness, with more strength! Like a student-singer, he should try to gain more octaves in his voice! Each time a person meet an abuser with a big mouth who want to impress him, he should raise his voice even louder, and be less civilised, so that slowly and slowly he will gain more confidence. When an abuser open his big mouth, it is not always the time for gentleman good manners. An abusee should learn to say « NO! » at least ten times per day. An abusee should learn to shake himself in order to flee; there is no gain to stay in an unpeaceful and inharmonious situation in the company of abusers. Sometimes the abuser does not want to change; he will need a good electric shock treatment, the revelation IN PUBLIC, so that he will understand that the good times of sucking others’ life are finished! Then the abusee should put a strong projector LIGHT, revealing the abuses or dirty crimes IN PUBLIC, so that there will be no more place for the abuser to hide his crimes. That’s exactly what is happening in the world right now with all the videos on U-tubes, revealing in FULL LIGHT the crimes of the politics, religious and governments.
About the word « SELFISHNESS », it is not selfish to take care of oneself, as long as it is not an excessive narcissism. In fact it is A DUTY to take care of oneself. If you don’t do it, who will do it for you? Spirits use another word: they say to love oneself a bit more. To be able to love the others, you have to love yourself first. I say: To be able to protect the others, you have to learn to protect yourself first. It is the same result. Your own self MUST EXIST!
A selfish one is the one who is trying to eliminate the others as if they were competitors, in order to stay the only one benefiting of the spiritual bread or the spiritual milk. A selfish one has no respect for the others. If you have respect for your neighbour, then you are not selfish. An empty narcissist vampire is selfish because he wants to suck others life, without thinking about the heavy consequences on the balance of the others.
About the conscience, you should consider it more scientifically. The evolution of the conscience is a pure individual path. No rewarding from external sources on this life or in the other side of life. The more we cast the evil, the falsehood, the weakness, and the temptations, the more the conscience brighten like a powerful lamp. Its natural brightness will draw us like magnets to the likes on the other side, when we will pass over. I don't know if you want to come back again on this bloody planet; but for me I hope, when I shall leave this Earth, I shall not come back again! That's why it is preferable to burn to ashes the most of our imperfections.
Some of us – not all of us – expect a kind and just life on Earth, but it is not for any rewarding, it is for SELF-ESTEEM. It is for the good pride of oneself. The pride that we have succeeded the challenge to live on this planet without dirtying our soul! The pride that we have not accepted to prostitute our soul for any earthly desire or any earthly ambition. The pride that our life has been useful for at least one person. The pride that we have gained more humility and more strength in the character. This pride is not vanity, it is our own acknowledgement of all the possibilities that we can achieve, and it is legitimate. But for this WE MUST EXIST and be strong. One cannot rescue the others and hold the entire world upon his shoulders without fear, if he has not this strength in the character, and if he does not strongly know who he is.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE Nr 1:
Imagine a lost dog, a hungry one, comes to your house. Will you not give your hand to this dog? Because you know that it has been evil treated by some people, will you not caress it, telling it gently that it has nothing to fear, that you are its friend? And will you not give foods to it? You will answer: « Yes, of course, it is what I would do ». Then that’s THE NATURAL YOU! That’s what you are! You are A GOLD NUGGET; the gold nugget that is sitting in your heart. We ALL are a GOLD NUGGET. This gold nugget has TWO MAGIC PROPERTIES. It is like a shining cloth with shining red colour threads of kindness energy, and gold threads of charitableness energy. When you pass gently your hand on this magic cloth, it makes MUSIC to the ears, and this cloth brings HAPPINESS too. Mark, think how many times you went to see friends, and you talked gently to them, you helped them when they were in difficulties, and even if it was not to help them, think about all the good moments you spent with them because you felt good in their company, you felt safe, and you could SHARE generously anything you knew with them, without limit. Was it not as if you have cut a little piece of this magic cloth to share it with them because you wanted to protect them, you wanted them to have happiness, you wanted anything good for them? That’s love, Mark! That’s the gold nugget, that’s THE NATURAL YOU! That’s the natural BEAUTY in you. That’s what makes you THE EQUAL with any of us, with any of the spirits, equal even with Jesus. There is no superior, no inferior. You just have to think a bit about yourself too, and to give a bit of this magic cloth to yourself. It is not selfishness. Selfishness is when you have not already shared anything with the others.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE Nr 2:
Aren’t you born with a body, 2 legs, 2 arms, 2 ears, two eyes, a head with the ability to reasons, the ability to judge, to estimate, to analyse? Don’t you have like every body the ability of common sense? The intellectual abilities? The intelligence? Haven’t you used this intelligence actively in your life or job until now? Then that’s THE NATURAL YOU too! I am sure if you look more inside of you, you will find more qualities. Every body has qualities.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE Nr 3:
Now that you looked inside yourself and found the NATURAL YOU: your natural kindness and your natural Active Intelligence, Lets look externally what WISDOM you have gained from external sources. Haven’t you said that you have made some studies in schools or university, that you have some scientific knowledge? Respect this! Don’t lessen yourself to please the jealous ones. You have not lost your time on this Earth; you tried to raise your knowledge and your understanding. It is up to every body to do the same. Spirits don’t like the dumbs. Haven’t you READ BOOKS in your life? Haven’t you made some trips here and there and observe how the others were living? How they were handling some situations, etc? Haven’t you discovered the invisible world and trying to know more about it? Well if you think more seriously about it, you will found that you have already capitalised a lot of WISDOM. That’s what you have achieved ALONE! You should be proud of it!
Well! All these knowledge of yourself should help you to ground yourself more strongly and to walk with more strength.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE Nr 4:
Now, Mark, you have a weakness that you have to get rid ABSOLUTELY! It is your FEAR FOR LOSING YOUR REPUTATION, your FEAR TO APPEAR BAD OR A MONSTER OR A CRUEL TORTURER. When you are with intelligent and normally balanced people, you don’t even think about your reputation, because these people are not trying to hurt you, they are not devious or mischievous. It is with these normal people that you share the most this piece of "magic cloth that makes music and give happiness".
It is only when you are in situations where you are with low level mentality PREDATORS, the evil abusers that you find yourself with this dilemma. Some abusers will use what I call « GOUJATTERIES » (I still don’t know the equivalent word in English) and try to provoke you because they are jealous of you. Other abusers will open their big mouth and will lie and make false accusations about you. Others will try to take what you have in order to hurt you, and will twist the situation and will say that you are nasty. In all the cases, these actions are provocations with subtle blackmail on your reputation. They think you care so much about your reputation, that you will not dare protesting or fight them openly. So for them, you are already dead! They think they can take over and suck your life, steal your wife, your house, everything you have built, all the years of working hard, and your happiness.
It is in such situation that you have to make the right thinking. The right thinking is about the subtle blackmail that takes place between the abuser and you, in front of everybody, without the awareness of the attendance of what is really going on. Very often these abusers are very clever, so they will already have spoiled the minds of the attendance with their devious manipulations, and this attendance will really think that you are the bad one. So you are really alone in front of a serious problem, and in front of a general hostility. But you have something important: YOUR INTELLIGENCE. The INTELLIGENCE of DAVID against the blind brutal force of GOLIATH.
The right thinking will be: « About my reputation, what else I have to lose that I have not already lost because of this bloody evil abuser that kept pouring craps on my head in my back? » If you think in that direction, then you are on the right path, because if you think you have no more things to lose that you have not already lost, it will give you the strength to face the abuser and to be a serious obstacle for him, standing strongly on your feet in front of him. You have to say to your self: « The hell of my reputation! Even if I am the one who will cut down my brand image, I don’t care! ».
Be firm against an abuser. Eventually, turn the situation; use the projector light techniques in order for everybody to be aware of what the abuser intended to do. Believe me, the abuser like to manipulate in the darkness and in the secrecy, in the back of others; he will not appreciate that you reveal in full light his ugly mentality. He is the one in fact who cares more about his reputation in the society because of his Huge Ego, and who want to APPEAR « spiritual », hiding his malignity to those who hold him in high esteem.
If you have overcome this obstacle of the FEAR OF LOSING YOUR REPUTATION, then you will walk stronger and stronger in your life. Your reputation should be the last of your concern. The reputation is about the Huge Ego. The humble one does not care. He just needs HUMILITY, FIRMNESS, STRENGTH, so that he will walk in co-operation of the spirits of higher degrees. If you overcome this fear, never again you will need to look yourself in others’ mirror, in others' eyes. You will be your own mirror because YOU WILL KNOW WHO YOU ARE: SOMEONE WHO EXISTS!
Just to tell you a funny story: this afternoon, I accompanied my husband to his garage. My husband was waiting for parking the car correctly since a moment, while I was waiting outside of the car. Another car came afterwards, and when the driver saw my husband parking his car, he began to shout and pretended that he was waiting for the place since a long time, which was a lie. By his big mouth, I knew immediately that he was an abuser who was used to impress the attendance in order to win easily. Guess what I have done? I have shouted at him even louder! He was the one who was surprised! He did not expect such reaction. He continued to shout at me once or twice, but as he saw that I would not give up, (I continued to open my mouth even louder; inside of me, I was laughing!), he finished by taking refuge inside the garage! :))
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