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boudicca
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Date Posted: 02:33:59 04/27/09 Mon
In reply to:
Edena
's message, "Seduction, Or .." on 01:45:01 01/30/06 Mon
In my opinion, you were raped. The fact that you still think about the incident proves that.
In 2005, I was raped by three guys in a well known death metal band. They put something in my drink and then had their way with me. I was seriously traumatized and I still am pretty fucked up. I should have reported them, but I blamed myself since I really liked one of them and would not have minded hooking up with him, I just didn't want his two bandmates raping me while he was holding me down. I wish I had reported them so something like this could never happen again.
>something a bit more forceful. In other words, is it
>reasonable to assume some of us, or someone we have
>known, may at one time have gotten caught up in a
>situation we did not expect?
>
>There is one instance that still makes me think. Years
>back I was flirting with a singer/guitarist I met,
>when his bandmate made a point of talking to me and my
>friend. He asked if we were going to the show the next
>night and we said we were.
>
>I stayed at my friend's after the show, but he invited
>me out the next day - he talked about fixing me up
>with the guitar player. I went to get them and only he
>was around. He was a real 'nice guy' sort ~ more like
>a guy who is friends with girls.
>
>When I stepped in the room and we began talking, he
>kissed me, out of the blue, saying I was so cute. I
>was taken so off-guard that I barely said, "hey, wait
>a minute" before he did it again. I was shocked at how
>fast his clothes came off (I had a summer dress on),
>and the act started - literally seconds.
>
>He was playful, not mean - happy and grateful
>afterwards, a few minutes later, that I thought he
>must have really needed it or really liked me (maybe
>both). Yet I can't help remembering that I tried to
>step back and did not give the go-ahead, and he knew
>but did it anyway.
>
>This has not happened before or since. I realize no
>one was there and can be skeptical, but I did not
>think I led him on. Has anyone had a similar
>experience where they could shed some light?
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