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Subject: Re: Big fans of the music VS. 'casual groupies' - Perceptions?


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Date Posted: 23:52:41 11/11/07 Sun
In reply to: Avelyn 's message, "Big fans of the music VS. 'casual groupies' - Perceptions?" on 11:55:22 11/10/07 Sat
 It's true. You never want to be The Fan Girl.

>This isn't a story or question about a particular
>rocker, just more of a question out of my curiosity
>and occasional confusion...
>
>I've been a groupie type for over a decade now, have
>gotten the chance to hang with many bands, and out of
>all the stuff those guys gossip about, I'm most
>interested in this... I have heard some very opposing
>views on the differences in rockers' attitudes toward
>girls (even very attractive ones) who (1) approach a
>band member enthusiastically, as a BIG FAN of them and
>their music, and (2) those who approach them as
>indifferent, maybe even acting like they don't really
>know who they are.
>
>It seems that some (even those who really 'get
>around') are just not into (and sometimes even
>repulsed by) girls who seem really into the music -
>the "big fan" types who'll go right up compliment
>the guy on his amazing [insert musical talent here]
>and ask for an autograph or whatever - regardless of
>how hot she actually is. Most, from what I've
>witnessed, would much rather go for the nonchalant
>"type #2". It's an interesting thing to witness,
>though I've seen and heard things that seriously
>conflict, and I'd like to hear others thoughts or
>stories about it.
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Re: Big fans of the music VS. 'casual groupies' - Perceptions?Psyche08:06:14 11/12/07 Mon
    Re: Big fans of the music VS. 'casual groupies' - Perceptions?Psyche18:18:11 11/17/07 Sat

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