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Date Posted: 13:30:21 04/09/08 Wed
Author: jj
Subject: the divorce stigma
In reply to: p 's message, "Re: I have no one else to talk to about this.PFLAG.." on 17:27:48 04/08/08 Tue

"too quick to divorce" is probably true statistically. No one WANTS to get a divorce. But when you realize you are on two different playing fields. Literally. Divorce can save your life. It is not a failure. I think it's hard to get that stigma out of our heads sometimes. I usually am pro-divorce in these situations since I see years of babysitting ahead for the straight spouse while the "confused" one makes up his/her mind. Which generally results in dumping you or cheating on you or both. So. That's just where I come from. Faster you pull that bandaid, sometimes the better. Qualifier is of course sometimes. I think if I stayed with my ex I'd be dead by now. As for PFLAG, well, not so much help there. Sometimes you need support APART from the gay community.

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