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Date Posted: 06:11:28 04/22/08 Tue
Author: Beamer
Subject: Re: Transgender Husband?
In reply to: Confused 's message, "Transgender Husband?" on 05:07:05 04/22/08 Tue

Dear Confused...

I don't have any experience with what you request, but perhaps you might consider looking beyond trying to find someone who might have had success with a similar situation and hoping you could what ? perhaps use that to help you with your sitituation that is completley separate?

What about just looking at you and your needs? Are they being met, do you think that no matter what he chooses in the future that your going to be happy to be living with him?

Are you staying with him just because you think he or "his" children need you? If you are that is being codependent...if you don't really know what that means I'd suggest reading at this site... for a portal to some Oxygen for your soul.

http://www.joy2meu.com

It's great that you worry about the children, but once you understand that making the most healthy decisions for your self will give those your in contact with the best possible model for wellness, it will be easier for you.

Keep talking to people... take it all in and get professional help for YOU!!

Love and Light,
Beamer

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  • Re: Transgender Husband? -- Sam (Admin), 13:14:16 04/22/08 Tue
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