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Date Posted: 09:47:24 09/01/08 Mon
Author: Thomas
Subject: Re:No apologies just an ear to listen
In reply to: Liz 's message, "Re: My apologies to all..." on 04:23:32 09/01/08 Mon

Liz, I don't feel the need to apologize to each and every Spouse who has been put thru this. I did not really know what subject to put, did not want to say "condolences" or anything like that. And at the same time, I too did the same to a Girl in the very begining of My life and have been ashamed of it ever since. Maybe my subject "apology" was to confess to people on the forum before I started becoming a regular on here. So as of now I retract my subject "no apologies" it now longer applies.

I'm not asking anyone to agree with my mere opinions, it is just my look on things from inside the gay world thats all. I have a friend who was married for years, loved his wife but met a man so he was his lover so to speak. My friend spent 4 years going between his wife and his "lover" (I hate that term) until one day the lover gave my friend an ultimatum... it's me or your wife, who's it going to be. Well my friend told him he could not choose and did not want it placed upon him like that. Well ultimatly His wife found out bout his "man friend" and She left him at the same time the time had expired for the man friend to get my friends decession and he wound up leaving him the same time his wife left.

Liz, if it's one thing I've learned about Woman is that they are stronger then Men give credit for. I did not come here thinking Women are weak, fraile basket cases. I've rarely seen a Lady act "children" like now men on the other hand sometimes act child like. I have lots of str8 married friends and hear that all the time by the Ladies. Yes there are things that I feel very bad about as to what has happened to spouses. And yes, reading these testimonials are hard to digest and I too could have easily made the same mistake but I'm not here to be a miracle worker. I know I can't fix the wrong, heal the pain or undo the past. I'm here to leand a supporting ear with no apologies, hows that.

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