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Date Posted: 19:01:58 09/01/08 Mon
Author: Thomas
Subject: Re:No apologies just an ear to listen
In reply to: Liz 's message, "Re:No apologies just an ear to listen" on 11:52:58 09/01/08 Mon

I'm glad Liz that we are on the same page!!! I did not want to make enemies here or have Women gang up on Me, I only wanted to say "I hear your stories and wish I knew what to say" to help ease the pain. Heck, I'm also in the Man hating club! I've been to a lot of the gay and all male sites, been to parties, been to all male campgrounds (yes married guys attend those places - so many Men so little time kind of place) and I study people. Mostly Men (there such interesting subjects to study) to see the varitiy that is out there. Time and time again what do I see in these studies.... sure gay men (Gay men will be just that, Gay men) but more and more I see, notice and deal with "married Guys". I hate that... IHate that Married Guys are out there living the life that "I" could be living had I not been born like this - and Yes I say "born". The only difference between Me as a Gay Male and a Guy who is married and hidding is "1" letter. That letter is "F". They "Lie" and I could live that "Life". A life of normalcy and acceptance by society. Not discrimination,prejudice and hate mongers who think "I'm" the creep.

Of course Ladies, Guys, any kind.... was married, gonna be married, bi (been with Women but chose Men) and your typical Gay Male are going going to be unsupportive. The married ones think they were tied down,collared, smuggled by the Wife. The almost married and Bi guys think that Woman try to dominate and shackle them and the Gay Men, well... they never loved or been with a Woman so they are just down right catty.

What a shame Liz that you had to endure that lind of attitude from a male site where you were dismissed and made to feel disposable. Believe it or not but Men hang together str8,bi or gay... if it was born male it will think male. Men don't take the time to shut up and listen. Even to the most subtle and almost soundless whispers that speak to them. Even though I am Masculine, I still know (hear) and feel My feminine side. My Momma & Grandmother taught me that and I'm darn proud of that.

You previously said Liz that maybe I should seek/get some therepy. Ever think that me being here and speaking with you Ladies "is" my therepy? I too feel burned, scorned and used by a Man. Don't get Me wrong, I'm not nor do I want to take anything from you Ladies who have indured so much. My situation is beans compared to yours and others like you. But hey, I feel as though I have a place to come to vent, sort things out and make sense of things.

Liz, I'm here for you. I hope you are there for me and others as well (as I know you are) and hopefully we can get others to bring issues, questions and concerns to the table for discussion. I hope to grow close to you as a friend since it seems as though it is just the two of us on here - Lol!

Take care Liz and have a good night.

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