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Date Posted: 12:27:06 09/06/08 Sat
Author: Thomas
Subject: Re:No apologies just an ear to listen
In reply to: Alison 's message, "Re:No apologies just an ear to listen" on 21:29:35 09/04/08 Thu

Hi Alison and thanks for your reply and sharing more of such an emotional and private situation.

I did not know that the UK standards were so different then here in the States. Being able to have sexual contact with a 16 old child is just completly and utterly wrong!!! Further more a grown Adult 35 Y/O Man who sees nothing wrong with that is just creepy. One thing I found in guys like him is that no matter how old they get, they will always want "young". Such a sick thought eh. Your husband can turn 45 and will probablly see a new 16 or 17 year old and want to be with them. Does he not see the wrong and weirdness in this behavior?

I'm glad you don't hate the kid for this since if he did come from an emotionally disturbed home he probablly already had a lot to deal with. And anyone who used that to gain the boys trust and confidence should be ashamed. I can certainly understand you saying " you don't mind if he wants to be with another Male but at least one that is more his age". You see that is what gives the bad rap to the homosexual people. Society thinks all gay people want young children to prey upon and are sick minded deviates. Sad to say though there is such a thing in the "lifestyle" that is called "dad for Son" I dont understand it what so ever. So maybe that was your Ex's kink and now he's able to have it and it is a 50/50 thing for him and his boy toy. Fifty percent the young lad will leave the old man or the other 50 percent is the old man will grow tired of the young chicken who will grow older and therefore go and get younger chicken.

I'm glad that you are strong, caring towards gay people and have a great relationship with your daughters! Time will heal and mend and I pray for you and your girls as well as all the Ladies here for better days ahead.

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