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Date Posted: 17:21:36 05/13/09 Wed
Author: Michael (I feel for you man!)
Subject: Re: My wife came out, badly.
In reply to: Kev 's message, "My wife came out, badly." on 05:35:02 04/21/09 Tue

Kevin,

after reading your post... I feel like I wrote it. Every single word you said, I have felt. I found out back in February about my now ex-wife who I was married to for 11 1/2 year and with for 13 years. It all rings true... unable to look at Lesbian porn, unable to look at Lesbians etc. I think you have come to the right place. For me, my now ex-wife and I decided back in November that we should get a divorce. I never wanted it. Somewhere in the course of the next 3 months my wife started making decisions that were not her: Smoking, Tattoos, Seeing a GIRL, mutual big purchases (Truck), promise rings, and now an engagement ring. Mind you then have only been together since the end of January. Well I broke down, told my wife I didn't want the divorce. I told her I wanted to Date again, like we did when we first got together. I wanted to rekindle what was once there. She rejected that, and told me why we could never get back together. She liked a girl. This person is 9 years her junior (22). So needless to say, I know its tough. We didn't cause this, we were just victims of circumstance. Perhaps the marriage wasn't right, and that should have been a sign. I still get false hopes that she and I will live out old age together. But how could I want that back after what she did. Its going to take time, but things will get back to normal because life goes on. I too have two children, a girl (9) and a boy (4). Right now, I don't feel mommy is the best role model. But she is still a parent.

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