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Date Posted: 11:49:27 06/16/09 Tue
Author: p
Subject: Re: My apologies to all...
In reply to: DianeS 's message, "Re: My apologies to all..." on 00:03:27 06/16/09 Tue

Diane,
You wrote: I'm expected to be emotionally aware enough to comprehend, understand and accept what he went through and may still be going through?
Who expects you to do this? Him? Screw him and the horse he rode in on.
You cannot, should not, will not EVER have any kind of comprehension or understanding of what lurks between his ears. You're not a closeted married gay man who chose to commit adultery.
Don't try.
As for the "accept" part, he didn't give you a choice. Let that one go. Not your job.

The expectation is unrealistic and unnecessary.
Worry about you and what you want and need going forward. As for him and his expecations of what you "should" do...he can go pound sand.

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