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Date Posted: 05:43:55 06/27/09 Sat
Author: Kevin (Calm)
Subject: Re: Secret Lives
In reply to: Liz 's message, "Secret Lives" on 11:51:41 06/26/09 Fri

My wifes life consumed me. All the decisions that I made were for her or to accomodate her. Now I am just 'collateral damage'.
I'm not a victim, since victim implies intent. I know that I didnt deserve to be treated like this.
I'm living life from day to day, trying hard to do for myself, what I have always done..trying to preserve the status quo. Though there is no 'status quo'. I dont know where I am going or what to do.
I know that I'm trying to find myself and a new direction.
What I WANT to be and do, rather than what I should be and do.

So I'm open to a new direction, though I havent found it yet.

All I ever wanted was a home (which I had but have now lost) a wife (ditto - twice) and a family (I have my son and I enjoy being a dad - he says I'm good at it), but maybe fate has something different in store for me.

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