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Date Posted: 11:24:12 07/01/09 Wed
Author: Maxpain (very angry)
Subject: Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??
In reply to: David 's message, "Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??" on 02:18:46 07/01/09 Wed

I want to thank all of you for your input and help. I am seeking help and making some small improvements to get myself in order to deal what lies ahead.

The other night her “girl friend” is trying to call it off in respect of my marriage. If it was up to my wife she would have continue the relationship and eventually moving to the sexual part of the relationship. My wife said she could see herself sleeping in the same bed with her. She finally agreed to seek help to see if she is really gay or because she was seeking something that was missing in our relationship or was afraid the old marriage would continue when I got back but the deployment made me a total different person in addition to the meds that I am on. I did not know all these years I must have been depressed/chemical imbalance.

The day I got off the plane and met her at the greeting center, we held each other what seems to be a year of Sundays and cried together. Two weeks before I came back we were planning a family vacation. In April we were planning to get another dog and we spent an entire week of emails and phone calls coming up with the name. December she sent me the lyrics of a song called “All I Ever Needed”. When she went back to teaching in September and when I finally made it over to Iraqi she was having panic attacks because she could talk to me real time. I left her for the final time at the armor June of last year again we cried and hug. I had a best friend, a wife and love of my life before I left. I told her all these things last night knowing her which she has no boundaries and is heavily impacted with change leading her to take this route with her best friend. I am hoping she will realize that she has a relationship and a marriage worth saving. However when I got home; I was greeted by a cold blood life sucking monster. What seems to be in a week time when I landed and when I actual got home, she turns into this person that I never in a life time would ever would treat her this way.

I said to her she had an emotional affair while I was away and you cheated on me. She just looked at me with no response. I am very angry at both of them. They did this in my house when my children were sleeping and while I was away. She made me a baby sister so she could have fun and expand this relationship of theirs when I got home. They have no moral compass what so ever, the implication they will have on my two boys, families and friends. They only care about themselves. This is a joke as well; her best friend is very active church going catholic. I have more honor, morals, values and ethics than if she would gone to church every single hour of each day for the rest of her life. BOTH OF THE made this decision to go down this path and now my wife is heartbroken because she is afraid that her best friend will go away. What a piece of sh$t, the both of them.

Could I get custody of my children if she deciding to go this route with her best friend? I have nothing against gay population but I don’t want my boys to grow up with her lack of moral compass and values with that home wrecker of a friend? This is a hard question to answer but based on what I have written do think she is gay?

Thanks again for you input

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