VoyForums

[ VoyUser Login optional ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ]

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Date Posted: 09:46:39 07/03/09 Fri
Author: Liz (For Allison)
Subject: Re: Secret Lives
In reply to: David 's message, "Re: Secret Lives" on 22:32:58 07/02/09 Thu

Allison,

I'm very happy for you and it shows that we can move on. Moving on for me doesn't mean finding a new partner. Part of me would enjoy a relationship with the opposite sex but I feel so set in my ways and no longer want to bend or compromise for anyone. I feel that I've done so much compromising and bending all my life and I no longer want to do that, except when it comes with my family (children, granchildren, mother and siblings).

Not sure what my future holds and I'd like to think it will be a more peaceful, content and happier future. I shudder when I think of the coldness towards me all those years by my ex. Part of me wants to see my ex really happy and not feel ashamed of being gay but there is another part of me who hopes he goes to hell for manipulating, lying and presenting a false personna to me and my children.

He used to tell the children to always be honest and accused my youngest of being amoral. She isn't. She was later diagnosed with being bipolar. It's too bad he couldn't say I wasn't honest with you kids and for that I'm sorry and I'm sorry I hurt all of you. That would be too much like admitting he's not this wonderful, know it all macho dude he likes everybody to think he is.

Allison, it's great to read your story. It put a smile on my face this morning.

Liz

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]
[ VoyUser Login ] Not required to post.
Post a public reply to this message | Go post a new public message
 * Notice: Posting problems? [ Click here ]
 * HTML allowed in marked fields.
Message subject (required):

Name (required):

  Expression (Optional mood/title along with your name) Examples: (happy, sad, The Joyful, etc.) help)

  E-mail address (optional):

Type your message here:


Notice: Copies of your message may remain on this and other systems on internet. Please be respectful.

[ Contact Forum Admin ]

Forum timezone: GMT-4
VF Version: 2.94, ConfDB:
Before posting please read our privacy policy.
VoyForums(tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems.
Copyright © 1998-2008 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.