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Date Posted: 19:08:55 07/10/09 Fri
Author: TIm (uncertain)
Subject: Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??
In reply to: difflurker 's message, "Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??" on 05:18:53 07/10/09 Fri

Thanks for the input difflurker,I listen to anything that brings me closer to reality.I loved my wife very much and just could'nt beleive this all took place right here in the family and the girl was also invited to my gandmothers house while visiting.My wife has always been a humble person and has never had a problem with sex,but she has always been very proper about how she went about doing anything.Nothing out of ordinary or artificial.Why you think she didn't prefer oral sex from a man,that lingers in my head because that is what lesbians do.You also hear of females that get involved with lesbians and later return to hetero,not so much the male figures.You dont think her being her age it could have something to do with re-living youth or harmones or something.She even wanted more than 2 kids but I would not agree to anymore for It was hard enough for me to accept having 2 in this fallen world.What you think was on her mind,just trying to let her adapt to the family and get to know everybody real good as if she was a good friend of the family.She bought bigger vehicle to haul wife and kids then bought sea-doo to entertain wife and kids.She crawled under my house to see what we needed to fix plumbing.What would your guess be on the so-called fiancee,kinda thinking of my kids.He does so much for her,what does she do for him.Why do they have 52 acres of land together and another 100,000 loan against the property.What in the hell is going on with these people.Why has'nt she got a conscience and where did my wifes conscience go.I don't think I could ever put a my family through what she has put it through.Everything about this only shows me why it is considered an abomination because only the devil could have done this.Do you beleive that god was our creator and the commandments are laws to abide by in this life.I understand feelings and addictions for I have been there.Are we suppose to act on feelings and be self-centered in order to search out our own happiness.Is life suppose to be merry all the time,where did her sense of being humane to a person that has been there for her and tried to please her for 21 years and never did anything to disrespect her wishes in our marriage.How does someones mind change so rapidly into being someone that no one even knows anymore.She'll never be the mother that she was before,not even close.She won't have the same friends she's had for years and everybody in her family cannot see how she could go about this like she did witout any communication whatsoever,kinda like just look at me,I got a girlfriend now,like it or not.Now we will have a dysfunctional family with shared visitation with the 2 kids that I love dearly and got talked into having.They will not have the home security nor the financial security that I was investing in for them to have opportunities that neither I or my wife had as children.Now it can get diminished by legal fees and re-financing from 3 years back to around 15 years.Is this all why being gay is a gift from God,I just can't see it.Should I get checked for disease since this girl appears to be trying to be involved more with the married women.My wife has normally taken care of my needs for the most part until the girl came along.So what is my wife since she did'nt seem to mind performing oral sex on me but didn't want in return,maybe scared of fantasizing.I will never wish this upon no married man or woman,it has got to be the biggest betrayal in her family and there bhave been a lot of them in her family,but never one that was adapted into the family that appeared to own my wife in no time flat.Thanks for the reply,love hurts like hell and I will never be the same.

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