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Date Posted: 19:41:01 07/16/09 Thu
Author: Tim
Subject: Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??
In reply to: difflurker 's message, "Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??" on 17:07:11 07/16/09 Thu

Difflurker, I'm sorry to say but I think the heterosexuals have more sensitive emotions than than the homosexual. I could never see myself sitting down to eat with wife and GF unless a .45 cailiber was the main entree. This shit happened in my house in my bed where my kids were conceived. 21 years of memories and trusting wife to the utmost and butchs head probably between mwy wifes legs. She saved herself for marriage and she made it clear that my body was hers and her body was mine. I saw the predatory stare in this bitchs eyes like she was in competition to take my wife. I think butch has issues that may never be addressed. I thought she was a friend of mine when she was like a member of the family for that whole year. I know for one thing that I think my wife felt pity for her for some reason. She needed someone to be there for her and did what she had to in order to get. So what you're saying is that maybe my wife never even loved me in the way that she loves butch. I'm sorry difflurker,but I have no pity for someone that can grin about getting my wife all for her amusement. For most of us straight spouses this has been the most difficult situation in our lives and my stomach still turns at the thought of it. Insecurity is very real for the hetero, I dont know about for you all. I had bad dreams and upset stomachs feeling like I was living in an open marriage, ain't no way I could allow myself to even try to be able to do that. My wifes had it pretty hard and I'm sure that she may just end up hateing me for it, but what does it matter if shes gone for good. I've occupied the house for ten months now while she is in grandmothers mobile home at times with up to 9 people there. Butch is not allowed there and there is restraining order keeping her from having kids in presence of butch. Your advice would be easier on everybody involved, but to say it and be able to do it are very distant obstacles. My wife should have been more open and honest about her sexuality before butch ever came into our familys life. No easier probably but at least maybe my wife could have expressed a little compassion and given time to seperate and divorce, I think she knew how faithful in marriage I had been and that my world revolved around her and the kids. I think she knew my love for her and she just couldn't inform me of anything that would bring devastation.

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